I am one of 4 children and my 22nd birthday just passed and i did not receive a single phone call from either of my siblings, we were all realy close growing up but now we see very little of each other, I know as time passes and when my parents are gone we will propobly wont even see eachother. For this reason I want at least 4 or more kids to share my love with but my hubby doesnt want any more than the two lovley boys we already have, Am i wanting more children for the wrong reasons? How can I get mu husband to understand and give me more children?
2007-03-24 09:10:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just loce children as well as I dont want to be old and alone.
2007-03-24 09:20:28 · update #1
Two boys is already a big enough responsibility. Both partners need to be on the same page about how many kids to have. You are only 22, you have at least 10 more years to have any more, so you don't need to be in such a rush. I think your current job should be to try to regain some of that closeness with your siblings. Call them frequently, even if they don't call you. Stay in contact with them.
2007-03-24 09:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes more children make a family further apart. I don't think children is the answer to your problem. My grandparents had 4 kids and now that they are all married with kids, no one even wants to get together for Christmas anymore because it is too crowded. 6 Kids is a lot for anyone to take care of. It is really a decision that needs to be between you and hubby. I think you already knew that =)
2007-03-24 16:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Trying♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to welcome more kids in your life if your husband is not ready to meet it with you.You should try to understand why you don't feel complete with your husband and the two children you already have.If nothing else, talk to your mother about the way you feel about growing up distant.Your husabnd has to be involved for better or worse.You are young and time can change things.Good luck.
2007-03-24 16:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pimpstick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling. First off, children do not make you happier, only you have that power. You need to get to the underlying problem here! Good Luck!
2007-03-24 16:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by lee911 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesnt like the whole pregnancy thing.. thats why my husband doest want more. He doesnt like the whole change in my attitude and how insecure i get.. thats why i dont want anymore either.
What about adoption?
2007-03-24 16:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ B1tchHere ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want those kids to replace your siblings.
2007-03-24 16:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋