If you have been divorced twice, and learned, what would you look for the 3 rd. time?

Answer 1

go for the "good guy".i married one and we have been so happy together.you can't go wrong when u find someone who respects u for who u are.

Answer 2

To be as nice as possible, I believe that it takes two to stay married, and two to break it apart. I must say that our Marriage hasn't been a bed of Roses, or any such thing, but We had Seven (7) Children, all so completely different, and now we have six (6) as we lost our youngest daughter to Epilepsy in her sleep @ 19. Marriage is a 60-40 thing, not 50-50 ! Sometimes you just have to give in so keep the spark in your marriage. If she, or He were wrong, it will show up later, and it's fun to make up ! The Bible says that marriage is Love and Faith, and Trust. Jealousy isn't Love, it's just a Physical thing....Good Luck and God Bless !!

Answer 3

that's me -twice screwd.- but the 3rd ones the charm(together now for 7yrs. but no wedding plans) he's BEAUTIFUL-gentle & perceptive, but very masculine,intelligent, confident and fearless.I prefer his company above all others, always in every situation. He's my very best friend. More than physical attraction-we really LIKE each other just the way we are. I am comfortable-can be myself with him. We can talk about anything/share openly our experiences & thoughts.We are secure not suspicious or jealous-don't make demands or try to control or change each other- only offer encouragement and advice and are content w/what is given freely. Soulmates & helpmates. We both work .We keep separate accounts and split our mutual household bills. We can disagree without arguing cause we are like-minded about important issues.

Answer 4

I`m sure the first and the second has the same pattern, so you should look for a very different new one. Or! its you to be change? Once is enough twice is too much.thrice is a fool.

Answer 5

I wouldn't get married a third time. Obviously, it's just not working out for you and you would probably just be happier living life for yourself. You can always date and even have a committed relationship. No need to get all the legal stuff involved.

Answer 6

I'm almost divorced twice...second one pending. First time was not for love or money, but cuz I was young and dumb. Second time was for love. This time I'm not going to get married. I'm getting a sugar daddy and hang onto that sucker as long as I can.

Answer 7

A man who was absolutely crazy in love head over heals in love with me, and had lots of money. But I'd prbably never get married again. I haven't been married for 15 years, or even had a boyfriend.

Answer 8

Fitting the description, I have come to the conclusion that I would fulfill each of the requirements of a significant other individually. In the beginning I looked for a person that had all or as many of the qualities I thought were important in the selection of that one, special person that you would share all of life with. A friend, lover, confidant, partner, advisor, team member, or any other position necessary as dictated by the situations of life. Then I looked for the unconditional attributes that we develope as a person as we grow and mature like integrity, intelligence, compassion, and the ability group such as dependability, reliability, and so forth. And as I started to make a list of pro's and con's of all the ingredients and attributes of that person began to look at the possibilities of matching them to a person. The end result was after all of the research and soul searching and time and effort in deciding what was really important found that the accepted norm was to select the best candidate from the opposite gender that would make life happy, successful, fullfilling, fun, adventuresome and complete the rest of the circle of life did not exist and that what I had learned is that all of the descriptions and criteria for a life mate simply did not exist in the female gender. They came up short by a landslide. Just to cover all the bases, I applied the same principal to my own gender and they sucked also by a landslide. Well, ruling out men and women the process became even more difficult now that I had no candidates from human presence. Then I looked at the most important qualities to me that cannot be compromised for any reason and that was the qualities of a best friend. This filled all of the areas of support and love, money, status, faults, and dependability in any circumstances regardless of benefit or adversity. Using the best friend theory, men and women still came up short with the best lacking in trust, the abilities, and not one man or woman fit the best friend profile. Becoming frustrated at the process I began to consider the value of the third time and questioned the drive to pair up with a human being for any reason. I could not find a requirement or a need to take on any more problems than normal life handed out and in solving this puzzle could not even find a reason for the first and second marriages taking place. I do not know where people think or believe that it is necessary to pair up in teams of any gender mix nor was there a substantial reason that promoted any consistant benefit above and beyond the complex addition of things to deal with in addition to life. Our society has this convaluded idea that pairing up is a required thing and that it makes life easier and more profitable with happiness and fullfillment of the inner being. When I finished a very in depth analysis of WHY people pair up and failed to justify with benefit of pairing, I found that the WHO, WHERE, WHEN of marital bliss ( WHAT) became unecessary to deal with and the most accurate filling of that pairing concept or adding a friend to your life was easy. I found a friend that would go with me anywhere I wanted, love me for who I was, stand beside me in any circumstances, console me even if my mood was not understood, enjoy the good, bad and indiferent unconditionally and remain my friend until death do us part. Best part of the whole deal is that the best partner had more qualities than either of the first two marriages, was cheaper and gave more to the relationship of 100% without complaint, required no special treatment or demanded anything personally for them. I adopted for free a life partner that was looking for a place to call home and a friend also. We as men had the right idea when we describe "Mans best friend!". Unfortunately, it was not woman or a man. It just proves that when you find something that works do not listen to anyone or anything telling you what you need. Mans best friend is a dog.

Answer 9

I'VE BEEN MARRIED THE DIVORCED TWICE AND THE KEY IS "DON'T LOOK" LET IT COME TO YOU THIS TIME SERIOUSLY JUST LIVE LIFE THIS TIME AROUND NO NEED FOR RELATIONSHIPS,IF ONE COMES TO YOU DATE AND I MEAN DATE FOR AT LEAST 1 YEAR OR MORE AND DO NOT HAVE SEX WHICH IT COMPLICATES ALL!!!!!!! 3RD ONE IS A CHARM THEY SAY PLUS GOOD COMES TO WHO THAT WAIT!!!

Answer 10

Nothing I would not marry the 3rd time I am not planning a 2nd marriage either

Answer 11

1. Rich
2. One foot in the Grave
3. The other foot on a banana peel