her husband had been frequenting strip clubs during the workday? What would you do?
2007-03-24 08:51:10 · 16 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a really tricky situation. I've been in one similar before and while I think the best thing would be to tell the friend, you may end up losing that friendship. I told a girlfriend of mine that her husband was cheating and after she caught him and dumped him, she dumped me as a friend as well. Women tend to blame the person who brought things like this to their attention. I would still tell, but just be ready for what ever may happen after. Good luck!
2007-03-24 08:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mom23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my friend because she deserves to know that her husband is spending some of his workdays at the strip bars. It's up to her what to do with that information, but he could be spending money there and he could get fired from his job if he is missing work to go there. These could both affect her.
2007-03-24 08:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, It will ruin your friendship. Just because a guy goes to strip clubs doesn't mean he is cheating. Some guys are just immature and go to lunch with their friends at strip clubs. I'd rather have my husband go to a strip club than be out cheating on me.
2007-03-24 09:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the situation....I'd probably lead her into the right dirrection of finding out. Like maybe finding a place to each lunch near the club and "accidently" find his car in the parking lot. I'd definitely tell you and comfort her if she needed it, because I'd expect that in return from a real friend.
2007-03-24 09:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by trikelkelley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of "killing the messenger"? This is what usually happens when you think you are doing the right thing. She may already know and tell you to mind your own business. As long as he isn't hitting on you, leave it go. BUT, if she finds out, don't tell her you knew. Silence is golden.
2007-03-24 09:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are good friends and you are sure that your friend will have a problem with it then yes you should tell her. Let him explain it to her. If you aren't good friends and you aren't sure whether your friend will care then just leave it alone because you don't want to look like you are sticking your nose into anything.
2007-03-24 08:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Vince R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, respect the marriage and say nothing- The truth will come to light. This will only make for a she say -he say argument and a strain on both your relationship with your friend and her marriage.
2007-03-24 09:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by DJA30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Sometimes it's just better to let people find out for themselves.
2007-03-24 09:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell. I hope u'll find a good way to tell your friend about this and hope your friend is good enough not to give you any hard feelings. good luck!
2007-03-24 09:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't he work? or Does he work there? How can he do this at these hours?
How do you know he is going to these places?
2007-03-24 09:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋