I found out my husband has been hiding money from me. Trust me I kick my in the *** for my stupidity. He has lied to me about the money, and just small things. I found out some of the money went to pay for sex. He will not touch me when his brother is around. He says he doesn't realize he's doing it.. or not doing it as the case may be. His brother doesn't like me and calls me names and things behind my back I recently found out. To my face he is very respectful. Back stabbing bastard!
Does this man truly love me or is he just used to me. We've been married for over 14 years. I already think I know the answer but what would you do in my shoes... only sincere honest answers please. this is breaking my heart and we have 2 teens in the home.
2007-03-24 08:22:00 · 1 answers · asked by lisa n florida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My ex lied about money all the time. Said he was broke and didn't have the money to pay the bills. He didn't use it for sex, but wanted someone else to support him, but if they will lie about money in a marriage that is a big red flag. Small lies are just as bad as big ones. If the one who says they love you can't be completely honest with you then you have a big problem. He should also never allow anyone to talk, put you down or disrepect you. Now, only he and God knows how he truely feels about you, the best thing is to know that action speaks louder than words. I could tell you all day I love you, but if I didn't back it up by my actions then what good does the words matter? Usually we know if someone cares or not, do what is best for you and not the kids. Kids bounce back easy and usually are smart enough to know when Mom and Dad aren't happy.
2007-03-25 06:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋