2007-03-24 08:19:58 · 18 answers · asked by marydakos 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This is a common problem for couples where the man has a longer penis. Try different positions that don't allow him as much penetration.
2007-03-24 09:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sometimes after a lot of rough sex I can be sore not only externally but internally as well from the repetitious...beating. The only thing I can suggest is that he needs to be more gentle, or you should explore different positions were he doesn't penetrate you as deeply. Try spooning with your legs together, that way he can experience a deep sensation without actually having to penetrate you as far. Or even try a position where you are on top so you can control the level of penetration. Also, if it starts to hurt, tell him to ease up, sex isn't any fun when it hurts to bad to enjoy it, and if he really likes you, he'll want you to enjoy it.
2007-03-24 16:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by nanlive35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should check with your doctor to make sure everything is ok. Then have your bf take it a little easier. If he doesn't like that idea, then it's time to rethink the relationship. It shouldn't hurt, although at different times of the month, you may be more sensitive too.
2007-03-24 15:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by firestar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my girl have that problem too, especially around the middle of her cycle. It seems like thats when its closer down. Some days shes good, and thats when we go at it, but other days I am just careful on the positions we do, and if we do it doggy style I keep my hands between her butt and my hips to stop it from going in too deep.
2007-03-24 15:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by IHaveLotsOfQuestions 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not really sure what the question is here but im going to add my two cents anyways.
i have the same problem and basically you just have to explain to him that it hurts and you'd rather him do it this way or that way or you take control of the situation this way you can determine how far it goes in, speed etc.
2007-03-24 15:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by carrol_87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might try a different position that's more comfortable. If other positions are also painful, see your doctor... it may be a health problem on your part. Intercourse should not hurt.
2007-03-24 15:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by PJo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably emotionally not ready. Most people don't know that sex is not suppose to hurt. If you are not ready then your vagina will not lubricate and so it would hurt.
2007-03-25 02:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop thrusting into you so deeply. Or, get on top, where you can control the depth of penetration.
2007-03-24 15:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a different position
2007-03-24 15:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by lori b 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so, that's his problem for not doing it right, i never had a complain for girls, my penis is 7.5 and i know how to do it, at the beginning is hard but he has to practice, tell him to go soft and slow.
2007-03-24 15:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Da 1 N only 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋