Why is it that while you are not married boyfriends love long and frequent sex; however, as soon as you marry them (and I've had this happen twice) they lose interest in sex and use your craving for sex to control you?
2007-03-24 08:10:54 · 10 answers · asked by ysamaggie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
better then not to get married !!!!!
2007-03-24 08:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have their sexual peak at age 18.
Women have theirs at age 30.
It sucks, but the way nature works. And unfortunately the older men get the less need they have.
I believe it also has something to do with, when your dating and not living together, its like their are only certain oppurtunities to have sex, and it makes them want it more, and when your married its like its right there. But their to lazy to go for it.
Also you have to understand that once you are married there is always more for them to be concerned about then sex. Kids, job, house, ect ect. Its all tiring. And not like their just playing video games while their not with you.
2007-03-24 08:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not always happen...
You need to talk to your mate and
tell him of your needs and expectations...
Tell him that your needs are an important
part of a happy successful married life
and if he cannot or will not keep you happy
then there is no point in wasting any
more time on the relationship.
2007-03-24 08:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have bigger problems than sex. You both need to sit down and talk through issues and not use secondary issues as control.
2007-03-24 09:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but it's usually women who are accused of doing this.
It just shows it can happen with either gender.
Hey welcome to the club - sit down and have a beer and enjoy the game with the rest of us.
2007-03-24 13:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because in the beginning, it's new and exciting. After you are married, well, it's the same old thing.
2007-03-24 08:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats curious because I know women who do the same thing
2007-03-24 08:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I guess you are just not good at choosing the right man. That is NOT common.
2007-03-24 08:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the answer but if you find out, please let me know. I can use some advice on that also...
2007-03-24 08:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by K9Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3some.
2007-03-24 08:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋