It was her boss and they worked alot together. She said she did't love him it was closeness and it just happened. Why would she risk everything for this man. Note he got her pregnant
2007-03-24 08:06:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 24 and married. Recently I have developed a relationship with someone at work that is 33. We work together alot and were friends. Over time we have become more. I was looking for something more and didn't even realize it until I found this man. He is everything that I could want and more. I think some of that is cause he is older and more mature. NOT that you aren't. My husband isn't quite at my level yet. Maybe she is looking for something that she lacks at home. SORRY!
2007-03-24 08:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Candi L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Damn women! They r so stupid. A man shows an interest and pretends to care so the feel an emotional attachment and let their feeling propel them into certain chaos. In retrospect they cant fathom why they did such a stupid thing. There is a reason wives should not be working with other men in a day to day close working relationship and u just found out why.(case and point in Candi L above) Dude, my best friend cried at my house for two months over similar situation.If u make amends, never let your wife work a job where there is this possibility. That is if u want to keep her. I wouldn't.
2007-03-24 08:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing just happens, there is always a plan in ones mind, also i don't think a person has an affair with someone they don't love. think she is telling u what she thinks u want to hear, especially if she is trying to save her marriage. think she needs to be honest with u, even if the truth hurts. if he got her pregnant, she knew the consequences, so personally i would not want to be in a marriage where their was a child, belonging to another, because of an affair that didn't need to happen in the first place. u just don't have an affair and not love that person, if that were the case no one would have an affair.
2007-03-24 09:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did it because he's her boss and he has power over her and she may be intimidatetd by that. If she can't afford to lose her job but if there have been layoffs are economic pressures at the company, she may have been given an easy out to not be put on the wrong list and that was sex.
It's good to be the king. :-)
2007-03-24 08:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend women are attracted to power. Unfortunately with him being her boss he knows this and probably took advantage of the situation. She got pregant,....Dand dude. I hope she's not your wife if so you better get yourself a lawyer and give her the finger and the freakin BOOT!
2007-03-24 08:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by johnnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women cheat for emotional reasons (not all)
2007-03-24 08:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by lori b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE you sure it was him? IT could be your baby too. WHO know why. BUT i blame men 4 shoving women out the door to work. just 4 the extra moneys.
2007-03-24 08:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people act before they think unfortunately it will cost her everything
2007-03-24 08:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated because she is an animal in heat.
2007-03-24 08:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just happened? What? They just happened to accidentally go to a motel, and their clothes just happened to fall off, and they just happened to fall into bed, and then just accidentally had sex?
Dump her.
2007-03-24 09:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋