Kissing My best Friend?

Question

Last week while I was at the bar, my best friend (also a girl) got drunk and really turned me on. We kissed and even toyed around. (I was drunk too I guess) She doesn't remember a thing but she wants to know what happened. What do I say? How do I explain this to my husband? What if we do it again?

Answer 1

i dont believe for a minute she doesnt remember anything. maybe shes just saying that cause shes embarassed. if she was that drunk-and blacking out-she wouldnt have been able to function or do anything! if your married, cheating is cheating whether its a man or woman.

Answer 2

First, don't get drunk again so you don't do stupid things.

Second, just tell your husband you kissed your girlfriend on 'accident' due to too much alcohol.

Third, is there a possibility of being 'turned on' by your best friend? Sure, but alcohol is the catalyst; hence, the 'turned on' physical attraction is superficial at best. It becomes concrete if you start thinking more about it. So my suggestion? Don't think about it too much.

Fourth, just tell your best friend the truth, sorry for kissing you, but that's what happens when there's too much alcohol.

Answer 3

Well for one, don't get drunk at a bar again with her. Drunk isn't a good thing. If she asks what happened, say it was really awkward, and you don't wanna talk about it. Tell the story to your husband, and tell hime you're sorry and make it up to him.

Answer 4

You should be like I don't remember.. but I THINK we kissed or something like that, she's your bestfriend it woun't be a big deal... Straight girls kiss straight girls ALL the time. I'm sure your husband will think it's hot. If he gets mad tell him that it would be okay with you if he got drunk and madeout with another guy. It's not a big deal.. It will be forgotten soon enough.

Answer 5

You do nothing. You are not responsible*** for things you do (or don't do) when you're under the influence of alcohol. Apparently you remember the incident while your friend did not - I wouldn't tell her anything, if I were you. If you could make things awkward for both of you. And you don't blurt it out to your hubby either ---- no harm, no foul. Forget it! And trust me, it's not going to happen again.



***And before you guys jump all over me, let it be clear that drinking per se is not illegal....it is driving under the influence that is illegal; it is in this sense that one is liable or responsible for his actions.

Answer 6

Well you cheated on your husband so take that into consideration. You need to tell him and hope that he forgives you but its OK to fool around with anyone (even your best friend) if you are married. Maybe you shouldn't hang out with her anymore so you dont have a lesbian affair.

Answer 7

Things like this always happen when your drunk so dnt worry. You dnt have 2 tell your friend if u dnt want to your husband needn't know ither.

Try checkin for websites on google on what to do. hope that helps. good luck.

Answer 8

Tell her the truth, if she is your best friend then let her know what happened. If you're freaked out about it let her know. You need to be open about it because you don't want to ruin your friendship. You should also tell your husband, but talk to your friend about it first.

Answer 9

That was silly of you. You should tell her what happened so to avoid it next time and consider a break up in your marriage if your husband should fine out

Answer 10

well since she's a girl (if ur not a bi) ur husband probally will understands that ur drunk and ur not cheating. just tell him u were REALLY drunk and u didmt reminber a thing . or just forget that it had happen.