he had a break up with his gf a couple of months back.. he doesnt wanna go back to her but misses her a lot. he has been quite honest to me & treats me as a best friend. i want him to be happy always. so friendz should i express my feelings to him?? if yes then how? plz help me.
2007-03-24 07:53:18 · 5 answers · asked by life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tread with caution! =) You may like him, but do you want to be the 1st person he likes after her?
Ok, with that said, be his friend and treat him with the same intentions you would want from him. Some of the best relationships start as friends.
If you want to tell him that you have more than friendly feelings, give it a little time and wait until it seems that he has gotten over the ex a little. He may be surprised and pleased, or surprised and not want that type of relationship. Make sure that regardless of how he decides to see you that you are willing to risk it. If it's not something he wants (to date you) being friends may not work out either.
Good luck!
2007-03-24 08:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by astrogirl2876 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are such good friends and can talk to each other tell him. Be honest about how you feel but that you don't want to loose a good friend either.Make sure he is really over the other girl and suggest that may be you two could do something together and see how things go. If it works out great if not hope that you still will be good friends. You never know unless you try!
2007-03-24 08:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by BrownEyedGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's still going through an emotion stage. Give him a bit more time like a week or two, just until he's stable and relaxed about the whole break up. After a week or two I suggest you tell him how you feel, but hint your feelings a week or two before you tell him, so he won't be so shocked. This process takes a while, so must say: stay patient.
Okay so wait for him to get over his ex and while you are give subtle hints about your feelings.
Once he's a bit over his ex break through the ice, but don't be too serious. Be a little romantic about it and giggly.
=] hope that helps
2007-03-24 08:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by francesca C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not yet. You never want to ruin a friendship. One of my friends ran into the same problem, but won't tell him because she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. You should just wait until the time is right, and that'll be when you are hanging out and you know that he likes you. You know on those movies where there's a girl and a guy, and there's always that time when they're hanging out, and they suddenly kiss? I know that'll happen with you.
2007-03-24 08:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah... de ja vous out the butt! This just recently happened to me and heres what went down:
He was in LOVE with his girlfriend but they broke up. So he always came to me to talk and whatever and eventually he gave me a ride home and hooked up. But two days after, his girlfriend came back... and he was like "You know theres only one girl that can keep me from you" (which was her)...
SO! My advice, go ahead and tell him how you feel! I regret not telling him before it was too late. From experience, please tell this guy that you like him. You won't regret it, my friend. :D Good luck!
2007-03-24 08:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Katie C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋