I dislike it when people are mean over nothing whats a good thing to do to change does it start with you
2007-03-24 07:37:28 · 7 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I believe that mean people arent happy at all, otherwise why would they be mean. I sometimes dislike mean people too, but if you react to them the same way as they act is that changing them, or reinforcing their mean ways by making it into a problem? I think these people just need love and understanding, as hard as it is to give when they are acting mean! If they are being mean, then there is a pretty good chance that someone was mean to them at some point, they have a choice whether they pay it forward or not. If they are mean to you and you choose not to react then I guess they have lost their imagined power over you and maybe the cycle will be broken. So I guess you are right, it starts with your own outlook and you have the power to change your views and maybe theirs at the same time!!!
2007-03-24 08:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are all responsible for our own behavior so unless a person see something negative about their self and wants to change and choses not to there is nothing we can do to change that persons mind, mean people are not happy people.
2007-03-24 14:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by D H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be scary to those people and be mean back to them. Unfortunately, if you are too nice to them they know they can get what they want out of you buy trying to bully you. Mean people are basically very weak inside and they have to hide it by being overly bitchy, rude, sociopaths.
2007-03-24 14:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
somtimes you feel , mad or sad, and when someone else doesnt try or understand you, i think that we try to be mean to make them feel like how we feel.
When your mad, or know you are going to say something you will regret, STEP ASIDE for a little, and DONT SAY ANYTHING, until you are calm
2007-03-24 14:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nohaymanana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel better when im nice because know one pay any attention to me when i mean!
2007-03-24 14:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Titishana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It gives me a stiffy.
2007-03-24 14:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
no.
2007-03-24 15:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by skcs11 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋