hi friends,
so here is my problem.i am 16 year old guy nd i doesn't know that where is my destiny till now.i am not able 2 decide that what i want to do in future.some of my friends says that u need a gf who inpires u.is it true that my life doesn't have direction nd by getting a gf my life got direction.I don't think so.Actually all my class mates have a gf nd i am alone.so they r trying that i will also get involve in relationship with any girl.there is a girl in my class who likes me nd she is gud looking ,intelligent,attractive nd also mine gud friend.many guys in my class also like 2 become her partner but my mind is saying again n again that not 2 have any relationship with any girl.Having a friend as a girl is ok but gf.....??my friends is forcing me nd yesterday she perposed me nd i am fed up of hearing abt her.now the talks abt her irritiate me nd my friend says that i am over reacting.i think that i also like the girl but my mind is stopping me
pls help me ,what to do?
2007-03-24 07:30:24 · 15 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Anything can suddenly strike as a source of inspiration in your life. My source of inspiration was a dream. Maybe your friends source of inspiration is his gf and that's why he is suggesting you to have one.
I suggest don't go for someone you are not interested in. Secondly you are just 16. You have a lot to ewxperience. Maybe the inspirational part of your life is yet to come. Till then you can learn to be self motivating.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-24 19:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..I'm 20 years old and I still have no clue what I want with my future. I'm also married so as you can see having someone in your life doesnt always help. My best advice is to do what youre doing and if youre not ready for a relationship then fine. Your friends need to understand that and not keep bothering you. Follow your instincts cuz youre alot smarter and more mature than some guys your age and mine.
2007-03-24 14:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get into a relationship just because you've never had a girlfriend or because your friends pressured you to have one or simply because she likes you. You have a right to choose your girlfriend, because it''s YOUR girlfriend. When you think a girl is the one, you don't even have to post your question here. Go with your gut feeling. Also, 16-year-old is too young to be aware what you want to do with your life. Study hard and try to live your life to its fullest, then someday you can see it clearly. Good luck!
2007-03-25 01:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sunny.........me rose here.....
look sunny u r very funny......now u r just 16 yrs old n u r worrying about yor life n future......baby its yor days study hard n fully enjoy the time of childhood n schooling coz this is the best days of life.hey!! n fill in mind that u ,yorself be yor inspiration to yor destiny.n about gf....forget it if u r really not insterested rite?coz gf n frens r not a subject to force to make it n break it .i think n realize that it is a supernatural force that u got answer from yor heart n mind. so lastly i would like to say that watever u do n wherever u go just spread happiness, enjoy the special moments.......make fun do laugh n make this world is made for u only.............................ok just jump in n jammm in baby...........good luck. hip hip hurray!!!
2007-04-01 01:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes inspiration , but at other times perspiration.
There can be no golden rule. It depends upon the person and your own capacity to handle the situation
2007-04-01 05:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mansukh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, women works as a inpiration in mans life.
2007-03-24 18:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by handsom_from_pune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunny..
First of all have a clear concept on your friend and girl friend. Is it not a friend of you who happens to be in opposite sex is girl friend. In this particular situation, it is better go by what your mind dictates to you and don't heed to the suggestions or opinions of your colleagues.
2007-04-01 06:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ur heart says dude if u think u don't want to be in a relationship then don't. Just think about it first & then take any further step.GOOD LUCK.tc.bye.
2007-03-24 15:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't work as inspiration or perspiration in a man's life. if you are in love with a woman, that works as inspiration. Otherwise it's all perspiration!
So the actual ispiration is love, not the woman!!!
2007-04-01 14:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kapil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a girlfriend, get one. If you don't want one, or if you think you don't need one, well look for new friends.
2007-03-31 23:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by blah... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋