The reason I want to leave my wife is not only because I can't stand being around her, but cuz she packed on the pounds. Call me a pig but I'm trying to be honest.
2007-03-24 07:29:47 · 34 answers · asked by -->-->Funkster 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-03-24 07:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be honest but you ain't fair. If she it that much overweight, then she needs help. When is the last time you told her that you loved her. When is the last time you took her out somewhere, When is the last time you brought her flowers (lots of them are free-just look by the side of the road), when is the last time you gave her a compliment of any kind. A woman needs to be reminded she is loved to have some reason to keep herself in shape. How many kids has she had for you? And what about yourself? Are you still a strapping young, virile, handsome dude with strong arms and flat abs, or have you gone to pot. No! Excuses don't cut it bub.
2007-03-24 07:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by sarge 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well it is up to u
u are in charge of ur life
as long as u are happy and not regret what u did today in the future
hey all the best now u ar single
get a new soul mate and move on k
hope that u be happier in the future and hope that ur new soul mate is better then ur wife
2007-03-24 07:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'll tell you one thing right now, she will be better off without you!!
If that were me, I would be glad he was going to leave, because it would prove that he never loved me in the first place, because if you really loved her, the pounds wouldn't matter.
Get a life man. Oh, hey, quick, don't let your toupe fall off on the way out the door!
2007-03-24 07:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by animal lover 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for men to grow tired sexually of their spouse, even if she looks like Liz Hurley. I call it diminishing return of sexual utility. However, 77% of marriages are sexless. Just because a guy loses interest in bed doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife anymore.
The problem may lie deeper. Your marriage may be based more on physical lust than on love and companionship. If decrease of attractiveness is valid reason for a divorce, then there will be no old couples like our parents.
2007-03-24 07:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by James S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her how you feel? Give her a chance and see if she is will to lose weight. I kinda see your point you marry a thin women who lets herself go. I would like to know why women let themselfs go! Not all women but about 50% do. If i was married i would want both myself and my mate to take care of ourselfs. I can see normal aging and a little weight gain. I just don't get it. And it is not just the women who let that happen i have seen men do it too.
2007-03-24 07:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mean to her. Just help motivate her to get to the gym or go on a diet. Send her to Over Eaters Anonymous. But don't put her down. If she's a good women she would stick around no matter what!
2007-03-24 07:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by AVATARD 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
your a pig, and it sounds like you need to be honest with her, maybe she cant stand you either, but doesnt want to hurt you. maybe you should go find a hooker or a 14 year old that weighs about 90 pounds, then you would really be the christian you claim to be.
2007-03-24 07:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by cane_holder 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
That's honest but not a good reason to leave your wife.
2007-03-24 07:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Nico 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's eating to cope with the stress in her life.She might be unhappy with her relationship with you, too.If you can't communicate,get some help.Apparently,there is no communication.
2007-03-24 07:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's two ways you can settle this, one, is that to tell her to loose weight and start being healthier, or two, you just have to be with her, it doesn't matter about her appearance, its whats in the heart what counts!
2007-03-24 07:34:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋