I am dating a guy he's a mexican and everybody keeps telling me that all mexican guys are all the same, they are players, and they said that's my boyfriend, before my boyfriend starts dating me he was like that (or maybe still..i dont know) he dates or fool around with other girls especially white girls. But when he started dating me he stopped doing that and we've been dating for 2 years now and he propose to me...but i dont know if i made the right decision that. I love him but he still flirts with girls.
2007-03-24 07:29:21 · 16 answers · asked by kikay_chick08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's an unfair generalization about Mexican guys. All guys are "players", they only vary in the degree of their playing prowess (skills). In like manner, girls are players too - and I dare anyone to dispute that. It's just that when we girls play the field, we are more subtle in our ways.
And then there's casual flirting and totally jackass flirting. Give your bf a chance to prove himself. He just might be the right one for you. If this early in the relationship, you're not even willing to give it a chance to bloom and grow, you might kick yourself later. Be cool, okay?
2007-03-24 07:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all Mexican guys are players. However its still true that some do. How old are you guys anyway? I really think that you shouldnt marry this guy yet because he's obviously not mature enoughto handle marriage life yet. I mean he still flirts with other girls, which shows he's still a kid. If a guy truely loves you he'll try as hard as he can to not flirt or think about any other girls, except for you. If you think that him flirting is a problem that bothers you, you should just break up with this guy.
2007-03-24 07:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your friends are ignorant. That is a stereotype. It's not fair to label all Hispanic males as players. That's like saying all blonde's are stupid. Unless you've dated every Mexican male, then how would you know? As for flirting and stuff, trust your gut, you can't expect your man to never talk to females but if he would rather hang out with random females all the time instead of you, you may want to do some investigating. My motto is you can look, but don't touch. If you've been together for more than 2 years then he isn't just in it to get a piece of ***. But if you plan on getting married, you have to think about it. Can you accept him for who he is, all the bad and good. Does he treat you like he wants to be with you and only you forever? Be honest with your self and follow your brain, not your heart.
2007-03-24 07:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lottalove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm Mexcian...and most of the Mexican guys I know are players...though most would rather brag about being pimps...especially the really cute ones...and come on ladies...most other hispanic chicks would have to agree about the 'latin lover' thing. Latin men like being charming but how far flirting goes depends on the individual. My dad is Mexican and has been married to my mom for 26 years..no cheating there, I have 6 siblings!
2007-03-24 09:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is very false. Yes, there are some Mexicans that are players, but there's also white, black, and asian guys that are players too. Not, all Mexicans, or, in general, not all guys are players.I'm telling u this because I myself am a Mexican American and I know alot of guys who are not players.
2007-03-24 07:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by roli's mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal I am mexican and the people that are mexican are VERY different.Some smoke,drink,and other bad things.But some others are nice,smart,and very good people.So tell him how you feel when you see him with other girls and he is flirting with girls but not you.So stand up and tell him that if he keeps doing that you are gonna make the relationship between you two OVER!!
2007-03-24 07:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by melibarr17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as quickly as a participant, constantly a participant! i would not dream of trusting something he says, least of all to even assume that he's involved in you. All a participant is able to is lies and whether he did tell the actuality in specific circumstances, how would you determine it from each and all of the lies? you're some distance greater advantageous off to in ordinary terms no longer bypass there with everyone like that...you will get harm!
2016-10-01 10:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are but you seem very immature and insecure. It has nothing to do with him being Mexican. My dad is Mexican and he has been married to my mother for over 30yrs and has never cheated on her. You need to be secure in your relationship and stop "wondering" or you won't be happy with any guy no matter what race he is.
2007-03-24 07:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats streroetypical. cheaters are cheaters regardless of there raise.Qlso i dont know why are they saying that when they that mexicans tend to ne passionate lovers and stuff like that well thats shows that you cant assume all mexicans are like that its like saying all african ammericans have big ding dongs theres no way to prove it . I cant say hes a cheater or not but also think about it if he didnt want to be with you he wouldent be
2007-03-24 07:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you call players we used to call pigs. It is not something that is associated with any race, a pig is a pig no matter where it is from. In the words of your generation, "once a player always a player". The rest is up to you, good luck.
2007-03-24 07:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Papa Joe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋