2007-03-24 07:08:52 · 20 answers · asked by meenu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He married me and left to another place immediately saying that he would come back soon.
I got no answer from him though i called and asked him about this lot of times.
It was an arranged marriage...
2007-03-24 07:18:46 · update #1
If it was an arranged marriage then you were not married for love. Maybe he is a believer in true love and needs to get his feelings in check. Has he ever consummated the marriage? If not, then a divorce would be easier. Maybe he is finally thinking for himself and not letting other people decide the fate of his life. Two people should be in love to get married. That's what marriage should be about. Do you love him?
2007-03-24 07:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Trying♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An arranged marriage can not be an easy thing for any two people. Even though you two were supposed to be married that does not mean he wasn't already in love with someone else, just as easily as you could have been. Mabey there is someone that is he in love with and can't bare to be away from. There may be rules when it comes to who you marry but there isn't rules for who you fall in love with. It could be sooo many reasons, think about what you do know about him and go from there and see if mabey you can find an explanation for your newly wed husband up and dissapeared. Good luck and best wishes.
T.
2007-03-24 14:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by ThePleasurePlayground.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have a medical problem. Erectile dysfunction? Depression? Diabetes? Health problems. Have him get a physical. Did he "touch" you before marriage? Ask him straight out why he won't have sex with you. Suggest the two you get counseling. Has your appearance changed a great deal since you married? Do a little snooping to see if he goes on any porn web sites; male or female. Age may factor in to.
2007-03-24 15:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by BellaDonna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY sister has thee SAME problem w/her husband...and he is DEFINATELY NOT gay!!
My sister`s husband is a work a holic and is completely tired and simply does not even think of the THOUGHT of having sex...so you are not alone!!
They did however see a doctor and they prescribed the blue lil pill for some help!!
Nagging about it makes the matter worse...so perhaps your ralationship is not the same anymore....there could be children in the picture OR whatever the case may be....SIMPLY let your partner KNOW that you BOTH need to COMPROMISE on each other`s part!!
seek professional help if ALL else fails!
Good luck....
2007-03-24 14:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Deborah B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reasons why could be endless. However, chances are either one or both spouses do not know how to or are afraid to share their feelings with the other. Also, perhaps neither spouse feels it is neccessary for there to be physical contact. With each secure in their enjoyment that there isn't any.
2007-03-24 14:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by auto_matticali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be 1 or more of the follow :
1) He's not attracted to you
2) His "goblyn" doesn't work right
3) He is sleeping with someone else
4) He is gay and using you as a cover up
5) You don't please him sexually so he feels like "why bother ?"
6) You wont do the things he likes sexually
7) He's one of those guys would doesn't like sex
8) He masturbates at work and doesn't have any urges when he gets home
9) He feels he doesn't please you sexually, so "Why bother ?"
10) He would rather watch SportCenter
2007-03-24 14:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be Asexual. This is a term out where for either a man or a woman is naturally not interested in sexual intercourse.
2007-03-24 14:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal A 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something traumatic happened in his youth and he has lots of trust and intimacy issues.
But - that would probably show itself other ways too.
So - my real guess is that he is gay and deep in the closet.
2007-03-24 14:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Stan W 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anyone could speculate that; however, to get the answer, you will simply have to ask...did you not communicate before?
Obviously not...if you were both virgins, maybe he simply is shy and scared???
2007-03-24 14:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by avechm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is Orthodox Jewish, then the husband wouldn't touch his wife while she is menstruating.
2007-03-24 14:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by jengirl9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋