im 16 me and my boyfriends have bin trying for a baby for a long time and iv lost both the secdond 1 i had to go for a d&c to remove it what could be rong with me
2007-03-24 06:54:06 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It means you should stop trying to get pregnant you are way too young!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-24 06:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by shirley e 7 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Gemma. I don't want to sound patronising but darling, relax and take your time. You are only 16 so get out there and enjoy your own life first. You have plenty of time to fall pregnant and have a healthy baby.
I first fell pregnant when I was 17 and I miscarried. I went on to have another 4 miscarraiges and also needed d+c's to remove the babies. There was no reason given to explain why this was happening. After numerous tests I was advised that I was just "unlucky". I am now 33 and pregnant. I am almost 3 months and having had 3 scans so far the baby is doing well. I have seen the heart beat and it was waving. It was a beautiful sight and it did make me cry. I know how emotional losing a baby can be, but sweetheart, stop thinking of babies just now and give you young body time to repair from such a traumatic experiance. Enjoy your life first, you will appreciate it more as you get older. I wish you every success in all that you choose and you'll make a wonderful mum some day. So take care, relax and enjoy the last of your teenage years. They go bye so quickly. xxx
2007-03-26 20:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by jan h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well My Question to you is why is a 16 year old young Lady trying to have a Baby? I had My 1st Baby at 15 and it was a long hard bumpy road.I love my son and he is Great But when you are so young you miss out on so much fun things in life you have your whole life ahead of you to have babies.I can't tell you what is wrong with you and why you are having miscarriage but I give you this advice,No more trying for a while and think about all the responsibility it is to have a baby it is a 24 hr a day and 7 day a week Job.
2007-03-24 07:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait, you said your boyfriends have been trying for a long time?? what does that mean, you are only 16! your body is possibly too young for pregnancy. i know even younger teens actually have successful and healthy babies, but if you are looking for a possible meaning to this, it's because you are too young. Wait a few more years, at least after you are 18. Plus, having a baby now is difficult because the money put into it can only be obtained through a successful career. How old are your boyfriends? Your miscarriages are telling you to wait...
2007-03-24 07:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by johnzie41492 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a big fat red sign that says:
"YOU'RE TOO YOUNG TO BE GETTING PREGNANT!!!"
You're body is probably telling you the same thing despite the ethical and moral reasons why at 16 year old and her boyfriend should not have a kid.
Wait.
Until you're an adult.
Until you have a steady income.
Until you have at least a couple thousand in savings.
Until you have a apartment or house of your own that YOU pay for.
Until you've graduated highschool.
Until you've got some kind of education- technical training, vocational or college.
Until you've seen what the real world is like AFTER being a teenager.
Until you've given it a few years to develop WHO you are.
2007-03-24 07:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to put the stress of pregnancy on your body. For the life of me I can't imagine why you'd want a baby at your age. Did you two make the decision together? What could be going through your heads? Emotionally, believe me, you're not prepared for this. You have so much more to learn, and a long life ahead of you to do it. I'd like to see you talk to your Mom, or someone older than you who wouldn't judge you but just try to understand where you're coming from, and offer some advice. PLEASE do this before you try again. I'm saying this because I've been there and I care.
2007-03-24 07:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that, but i think your still young to be considering have babies
the reason people have miscarriages is its a way of telling you there is something wrong with the baby
please wait a few more years to give your body time to adjust,when ready then try again then you will carry baby to full term
please use protection for the next few years unless you want to keep putting your body through this
cant believe someone is actually telling you to try again OMG !like you havent been through enough
and dont believe the crap that its your first blah blah you always miscarry,where the hell do they get there information from?
2007-03-24 13:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your problems.
Miscarriage usually occurs because there is something wrong with the growing baby. I would stop trying for now and wait a few years. Either it's your body telling you that it's not ready for you to be carrying a child or there's something else medically wrong, which in a few years time you can speak to your doctor about.
2007-03-24 08:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Bugs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This totally means that not matter how mature you are your body is not ready to create life and carry a child. Wait a year or so before you try again. Giving birth before your body is ready can really damage your body in the long run. I am sure that when you do have kids your going to want them to be healthy. Trying to support a pregnancy can be very hard on your body. And your baby will take what it needs from your body. If your body doesn't have it your baby will go with out and maybe not do so well. Or have problems.Really think this thru. Remember nothing is wrong with you ,your body is just not ready.
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2007-03-24 07:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by potstirrer03 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are to young. Your body my not be fully developed. The best advice that I think anyone could give to you right now is to wait. I do not know your situation but....I have seen similar sistuations many times and most of the time it doesnt end up they way you think it will. Even if you are truly in love with your boyfriend wait untill you are both out of school and have secure jobs to bring a child into this world. Show each other your love in different ways, enjoy your time together alone before you have a nother life in between. Please wait!
2007-03-24 06:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not abnormal to have a miscarrige or more if it is your first time trying to have a baby/or having a unplanned baby...
In your case I would say it's a way of nature duing you a favor.
Wait,girlfriend,the world is at your feet.
Why rush into motherhood at the age of only 16?
You'll miss out on EVERYTHING.
A baby is cute and all,but it takes WORK 24/7 365 days of the year.
DON'T GET "ROBBED",live your life and give yourself the gift of having your opportuneties.
Get an education,take the time to stumble and fall.
You can't "stumble and fall' no more once the baby is there.
There's something to learn and experience about life EVERY DAY,and you have waaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many one time lesson's to go thru and learn before you create another life.
Good luck,be smart!
2007-03-24 07:10:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋