How can i stop my freind having sex when she wants to.?

Question

she is 14 and a mother of three and is pregnant again with a little girl. her oldest is 3 and her youngest is 11 months old. and she will have her baby in may. she needs help but won't find out how o get it. how can i help her. please tell me.

Answer 1

To be honest you can't make her stop. it's her life and ultimately her decision to continue doing what she is doing. While what she is doing is not wise or smart the only thing you can do is continue to be her friend. Try to protect her best you can and tell her how you feel about it but don't try to force her to stop. She needs a friend right now because she's obviously very insecure so you don't want to push her away. Try to explain to her that she can be loved and cared for without the sex and tell her she needs to stop thinking about herself and think of her kids. She's too young to be sleeping around. Just be the best friend you can be and you may just end up saving her life one day!! I commend you for sticking with her though a lot of people wouldn't. You're probably a great friend. Hang in there and good luck

Answer 2

Hello:
Does her mom know that she keeps doing it? Just show her what can happen and shes 14 yrs old and she has 2 kids can you have kids at the age 14 well i would just tell her that's its going to be hard taking care of lots of kids if she doesn't stop.
Well i would just leave her she'll stop when it comes to a good time and she will get tierd of having S.E.X. to much. so just leave her then i guss.

Answer 3

Sorry to hear this this means she haven't learn yet...She haven't realized the meaning of being a parent, it is not only to open your legs to a cute boy, it is much more and if she is not doing anything for her then there is no way you can do something other than advice her to PROTECT her self everytime she has sex... and good luck to her hopefully she stops having unwanted and unplanned kids !!!!