Help .. Pleasee !?

Question

i love my ex. even now, after 8 months. i havent been able to get over him . we were together for a little over two years & after everything, he was my first love, i miss him and i can't stand living without him. everyone tells me to just move on but they don't understand what its like. i just want him back. anyone have any advice who was in this situation? please help im hopeless. . .

Answer 1

i feel your pain. i`ve been in the same situation, exactly. you have to try and move on& whatevers meant to be will work out perfectly * thats the phrase i live by. so when i miss my ex, i think about the good times & stay hopefull in thinking that we are meant to be, and soon, even after everything, will be happy agian. i hope it works for you hun & good luck in ur situation. i know its tough but hang in there . *

Answer 2

We all will always remember our first love be it boyfriend/girlfriend or marriage or just friends or whatever. Its never easy to get over a relationship no matter how long. This is very normalreaction to this situation and occurs thousands of times everyday all over the world. Something came between you two and caused the breakup. It will take some time to get over him and everyday things will get a little easier until this is only a memory. If this was meant to be then you two would be together today so chances are its truly over so its time to start moving on with your life and find someone else who you were meant to be with. Good luck

Answer 3

It's hard to move on when it's your first love, I was hurt too but I realized that I couln't be torturing myself and I was hurting while he was like whatever, things happen for a reason, start meeting new guys, not boyfriends yet, it's a slow process but look at me right now I wanted to die cause I missed my ex, I was so used to being with him but now after a while I'm happily married you just gotta give it time when u feel u start missing him, do something, sing, run, whatever just keep your mind out of him, songs that remind u of him replace them with happy songs, time heals all wounds and you'll realize that little by little you'll start to forget him. It's been 8 months and you're holding on to a guy that probably feels nothing for you anymore or that is prob. already dating someone, is it fair 4 u? No. It's not easy but once u get over him you'll see that u will live much more happier.

Answer 4

well, i still have feelings for my ex as well and i know how it is. Its not easy getting over a first love and a true love at that. I have a new boyfriend now, but its never going to be the same feeling that i had with my ex. I was with him for 3 years and i really loved him. You can take it slowly and start progressing towards new things. Have a little fun, drink a little, laugh a little and just enjoy yourself. If its really meant to be than it will happen. If you really want him back just go for it.

Answer 5

you know that saying, "get a life", I`m sure your ex already did, in 8 months,do you really think he has not f@ck someone else? and you still want him back, are you stupid or something??, you said he was you 1st, how do you know he was even good, have you try another dick besides his, (sorry about my french), god really, if you look the same as you did (physically) as the day he left you, change your looks, if you`re heavy, loose some weight, chang the color of your hair, have a botox, chin implant , anything that will make you fell great about yourself is worth it, and when you feel good about yourself, you`ll find out that you do not need your ex back, because you don`t need someone that doesn`t want to be with you, that doesn`t appreciate the person inside of you.

Answer 6

i understand u because when u like someone really bad there nothing that can change Ur mind of him. specially when is Ur first love. if i was u i would give him a second changes but it would depend on what he did to u if he did something bad that hurt u then i would think twice. but if it was a little thing then u should go back to him. the first love no one is going to take a way that feeling i hope this would work for good luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

a psychotherapist friend of mine once told me - while she was still in college - that she learned it takes as along as the amount of time she spent with a man to get over him! So - minus the amount of time you have been without him from the time you were were with him - and that would be the amount of time left for you to still feel sad. But just think - then you will start feeling happy again!

Answer 8

Das the same thing that happened to me a month ago. but he was my bf only 2 weeks cuz he broke up wit me 4 no reason. Well..I would say 2 4get about him because he isn't the best man on earth. You will find a better man!!

Answer 9

i know it great deal to forget someone who has been part of ur life for two years!!! however not impossible to put the ghosts to rest....dont try to forget him it wont do anygood just concentrate ur energy on some other thins...more u try to forget more that will make u remind of the good times u had with him....it's not easy to get over somebody but mark my words its not impossible...!!! just give it sometime....and if u chase the ghosts of the past ur present will be left empty!! so try somethin which u really like to do...those things which u like to do with ur friends and family and alone too..... u will do just fine... have faith u will be out of this mess soon!!

Answer 10

why aren't you dating first ask your self was it ammicable? if you can with out hesitation say yes then play dirty and get him back if for anything other than relocation for a job or school broke the two of you up keep right on walking life is to short to be with some one who can't give you his whole heart