hello my dears,
I will be in relation with him, BUT...he is still hurt because of his ex cheated him...
Although he says that he is ready, he is till hurt...it has been a few years now separated...
the problem is that he still maintani contact with her...to a minimum yes, but he still reply to her calls...ect and help her when she needs!!!
although he says that he does not love her anymore...I doubt it to be honest although I believe it in the same time!!
what do you think about this situation,...messy init?
2007-03-24 06:47:06 · 6 answers · asked by jaja 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Say What?!?
2007-03-24 06:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely is NOT over her even if he thinks he can move on. Words are cheap and his actions speak the truth louder. Hes only using you to try and forget her and obviousily its not working. Youre going to end up being the loser in all this before its over and done. So its time for you to end it and move on and find someone better for you and has no current baggage. Good luck
2007-03-24 13:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i'm sorry to say but this relation ship has no hope my sister has had this happen to her 1 i'm just guessing but he lives with you dos 'ent he ? it could be different but he is going to drag you along with you footing the bill untill his ex takes him back ! and in the end you are the only one who gets hurt ! start by telling him that it make you uncomfortable how he is still in contact with his ex and you trust him but you think that one day he might leave you for her and that would break your heart then tell him it eather her or me make him choose you or her tell him if he chooses's you then he is not to speak to this girl ever again ! hope this helps,heather
2007-03-24 14:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by must_love_dogs_and_me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he was separated...he's still in a relationship. Move on....nothing but problems trying to make this work, he's not ready for another relationship...sorry
2007-03-24 13:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear try to love him more than his past and dont let him think about her past x-girl friend. try to keep contect with him and be very close to him.and some times show some sexual love , like kiss and hug .......and not more then it.let him crazy for your love.
2007-03-25 15:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by NR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..
Something wrong with him..
He should be over it by now...
2007-03-24 13:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋