Im in year 8 and he is in year 10 only 2 years. my mum gets annoyed when i txt him and talk to him on the phone. she keeps kiving me talks about him and trying to change my mind. i really love him and its hard to hide my phone from my mum and keep it on silent constantly.please help.
2007-03-24 06:37:16 · 16 answers · asked by woohootoodles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lets get this strait IM NOT 8 im in year 8 which makes me 13 IM 13 PPL plz pay attention im 13 not 8 13!!!!
2007-03-24 08:36:18 · update #1
She obviously cares about you if she's worried...it's natural she will be if he's older. But that's because she doesn't know what he's like.
Invite him round to the house...if she sees that he's made the effort to try and get on with her, she'll realise he obviously does think highly of you, and she'll be less worried and most likely cut you some slack.
2007-03-24 12:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Les 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this miss, but your mum doesnt really hate your bf, she hates the situation. you are only 8 and have not learned about life enough to really have a bf. You need to focus on being a little girl and learning at school. Boyfriends are for later when your mind can handle them and your emotions are more mature.
Keep the young man for a friend and be that little girl you should be at 8. Then when the time comes and mum feels you are ready to be in the catagory of being bf and gf with someone, she wont feel bad about the boy unless he is mean and or gives her a reason to not like him.
2007-03-24 06:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirlduchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your mother and she will be there a lot longer after perhaps this boyfriend.
Get her to meet with the boy invite him to a dinner or something like that - make her see what you see and she may change her mind.
One thing you must not do (if you really want to keep on seeing the boy) is to hide stuff away or meet him in secret - that will really upset your Mum and you will then have no opportunity to see him.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 06:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mum is worried that you may develope a relationship with this lad who is older than you. 2 year age gap is probably what is worrying her.
Why don't you try and talk to her by saying he is just a lad at school you like and that you wont do anything silly.
I see no reason why you shouldn't be texting him and speaking on the phone.
2007-03-24 06:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think thats bad.. I met my boyfriend when i was 4 and he was 19.. my mum went ape.. I know how you feel and i bet you really do love him. Invite him over to your house so your mum can get to know him. Tell your mum that you will cook tea for all of you so that they can chat together. Maybe if she got to know him she would get to like him!! Remind her that there are success stories...
I am 30 now and have been with that same guy for 16 yrs!!! We are now married and have 2 children. Tell her that you are sensible and wont do anything silly that she wouldnt approve of!!! Good luck hun.x
2007-03-24 06:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by JustJem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out her reasons for hating him. Keep an open mind, she may just be right.
She only has your best interests at heart, is having a boyfriend interfering with your school work? Try to talk it through with her and reach some agreements about when you see and speak to him then stick to what you agree.
2007-03-24 06:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by carnival queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was in year 8 i had a boyfriend in year 10 , i now see why she didnt like it a boys mind works differently to a girls alot of 15/16 year old boys just talk about sex and is all they want .she is jus trying to protect you from gettin hurt
2007-03-24 06:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest and i know this isn't what you want to hear but mom's always know best and only want the best for you. She has your best intentions at heart and one you are old enough and have a boyfriend that is the right guy then she will be nice. I've had a really hard with my mom and boyfriends but from experience I know she is always right and know best!She is your best friend and only wants the best for you!
2007-03-24 06:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mary-Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be beause his nearly 16 and teenage boys tend to get sex drives very early on in their teens. your mum is only protecting you, she is worried he might taje advange off you and get yu pregant and dump you. You need to let your mum know that you can be trusted. Maybe ask your mum too meet your boyfriend so she can se what a sweet guy he is. also expalin that you wont let him take advantage off you
2007-03-27 00:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by xXx pink princezz xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without your mum's permission I can't talk with you.
A common term for a thirteen year old girl is:
Jail Bait.
Go Figure.
2007-03-26 17:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋