i really like this kid in my class ,, he's cute,smart,nice,and funny, but im not confident i think im ugly,im not sure if he likes me ,and im afraid if i ask him out he will say no but i want to ask him out before school gets out in a month
2007-03-24 06:37:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I think you should show that you have an interest in him. Spend more time around him. Let him know things are a little different. Be more flirty. It doesn't have to be over-the-top. If he asks you out, great, but that isn't very important. Dating is totally over-rated. It's even better to have a few flirt-friends. Time progresses and it might develop, but I don't think you can go out with him and actually have hope for longer than a week unless you get to know each other well first.
2007-03-24 06:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by xxthespianxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the exact same problem with that! Just think of it this way, if you ask him out, you have nothing to lose, right? He may turn you down, but at least it would be at the end of the year. Also, you could possibly hint to him that you like him by smiling at him or holding eye contact with him for a little bit before looking away again. I would do those things FIRST to see how he reacts before you make any moves because you wouldn't want it to be something completely out of the blue and have him freak out. But I know what you mean. I have the same problem and I personally wouldn't have the guts to ask someone out like that. But if you can, hey, go for it and don't worry about what others think! And im sure that you're not ugly. No one is ugly. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
Good luck!!
2007-03-24 13:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by •°o.O.nenna.O.o°• 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you to do is to pick a day when you want to ask him. Then spend all the time before that picking out what to wear , how u will wear ur hair/ make up , and how you will ask him , and then have something to say to what he could say in every situation . This way you will fell preparedand comfortable to ask him. when the day comes around you will get nervous and want to back out but don't... or u may regret it later. The best thing to do when you get nervious is close your eyes or look at a random object and just take a lot of deep breaths untill you are ready to move forward . Then simple find a time when you and him are away from friends and go for it. when you ask him out you may want to ask him not specificly to go out with you but have a time or an event to ask him to. That way if he says no he will not be saying no to you but to the event. and if he says yes then on the event ask him to be your boyfriend.
2007-03-24 13:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by beth_angel12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi: first of all there is no such thing as agly..uglyness and beauty is reference thing depends on the person. if half of the world thinks that your ugly and the other think that you are beautifull , then what are you?... so get that ugly thing out of your way.
dont be afreid from the word no...because if any one come up to you and ask you out , you maight say no..not only the reson because some one is agly for you ...but because there are other reasons..like you might be in loves with some one else. or like some one else . or some one else broke your hart and at this stage you thinks that all men are tut...tut......
finally dont think that there is always some thing wrong with you...
my advice is that good thing or better yet great things happen only to people that take a risk. not to the one who stays hidden scared to do things in life ...life is short, live it to the fulles.but dont hert other people ...beacuse what you do to people turns right back at you ...
hope that helps ..good luck
2007-03-24 13:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by kain_odeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is just ask him. The worst thing that can happen is he'll say no; then what? If he says yes, great! If he says no, then it just wasn't suppose to happen. But you'll never know if you don't ask him. You are young and there are plenty of boy out there that you haven't met yet, so don't get too upset if he says no. Besides why would you want to be with someone who doesn't like you for who you are?
2007-03-24 13:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by doing like a group date. get a few close friends (both boys & girls) who can kinda read the signs of whats going on & be honest with u if there is something there or not. ask him if he wants to tag along & see how it goes. if u are having fun & thinks he is too when its time to leave say "we should hang out again sometime, just me & you" & then suggest something fun to do & see what he says. i am sure u are beautiful & if he can't see that then he is not worth it. the worst that can happen is he can say no & if he does.... so what!! there is 100 more just like him out there!
2007-03-24 17:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by methchick3221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow in a month? That's fast. It's okay if he says no. YOu need to learn to take disappointment, it won't kill you. It's a part of life. Take the rejection and move on. You will get rejected in life it's inevitable, don't fear it or you'll miss out on allot in life. Life's too short, take chances, or you'll regret all you've missed by sitting on the safe sidelines. There's good and bad in life, we must accept both or we'll never enjoy life. Write him a note or just ask him right out. It's okay to be shy, but don't complain about something unless you're going to do something about it. Be happy.
2007-03-24 13:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will ever know whether or not he likes you and wants to go out with you is to ask him yourself. Mind you though, there is no guarantee that he will go out with you, however, if not, do not fret- take it as an obstacle that you went through to make you stronger in the long run. As far as your thoughts about your looks go-- you are beautiful. Beauty is only skin deep-- it is here today and gone tomorrow- it's the insides that matter for they are always with you.
Just remember, never frown- even when you are sad because you never know who is falling in love with your smile!!
2007-03-24 13:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by La 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOn't ask him on a date yet...Start to know him first.
Say something like, wanna hang out after school?
or just talk to him first, say Hi or anything. Ask him wats up.
DOnt Be too excited, you should also be ready if your heart gets broken.
2007-03-24 13:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by A. Roman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alot of us have problems with our self esteem. God all created us in a form that is just for us. Sure you have beauty for your parents. It is not always what a person sees on the outside anyway. It is the inside that counts. Eventuality a true friend learns this. Just relax.... and have a great summer!
2007-03-24 13:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋