What do you do to prevent that from being jealous?
2007-03-24 06:21:01 · 13 answers · asked by *Rachel* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let's say if your best friend is ignoring you when her friend came inthe room. But you don't want to confront your friend's friend because you like her and she's your friend, too. This kind of jealous is not like if somebody else has something that I don't have. What do you do?
2007-03-24 07:31:43 · update #1
well theres nothing you can do, im "jealous" too but i just try to not be by trying to understand the other person, and think that if i were to do that too i wouldnt want the other person to be jealous.
2007-03-24 06:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by introverted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All emotions are controlled by the brain, but first you need to figure out why you are jealous( did you get cheated on or told a lie that you knew was a lie ect.ect,) After that you need to think of ways to make your self not jealous .Its all about insecurities, you have to deal with them first before you can become jealous free.
2007-03-24 13:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous of what? relationship or work wise..it's normal but not healthy..always keep in mind that you are still blessed. Once you start listening to that dark side..that's the root of everything. You will not be able to focus on what is important in your life. Always do reality check and praying can help!
2007-03-24 13:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Khit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to focus on all the great stuff and qualities you have instead of what others have. It's a hard thing to prevent but just try!
2007-03-24 13:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle ™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you do is tell yourself what does this person have that I can not acquire myself? There is no need for jealousy because you can be or do whatever you want if you put your mind to it.
2007-03-24 13:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a very very tough one......!!!!
its tooo difficult to handle for me....!!! I just can't help being jealous when someone gets what I want.
its too radical.....but a chinese proverb actually helps sometimes....."do unto others....if you want others to do unto you...."
2007-03-24 13:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Radical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that it is probebly the most negative, destructive emotion out there!
2007-03-24 13:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by swiss girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a whole bag of self confidence!!
2007-03-24 13:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by RobStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that boys ask me out and not fake dumb girls and they get jealous
2007-03-24 13:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reflect on what is good that you have, instead of obsessing about what others have
2007-03-24 13:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋