Im not one to do anything like this, asking other people for adviswe but its really eating me up inside. I pretend like it doesnt bother me but it really does really bad. She knows but i guess she doesnt care. I knew her boyfriend was cheating on her in dec but i didnt tell her untl feb b/c its really not anything you want to tell sum 1 knowing itll completely turn thier life upside down. I talked to him about and told him if i found out he did it again i would tell her. Yes i know for fact he was cheating on her and no it wasnt me, i would never do that. Ne-wayz i told her and now she completely cut me out of her life. Ive tried so hard to still be here and let her know that im not mad. I didnt want her to make any decisions about it i simply told her b/c i personaly would expect her to tell me. Ive given up & told her that im done trying to be her friend and that she knows my number if she wants to be the bestfriend that i uesd to have. Did i do the right thing? Or should i still try
2007-03-24 06:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by anonomous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Can i add that i know he cheated on her b/c who he cheated with sat in my car and cried to me b/c she loved him so much. And hes done it b/4
2007-03-24 06:30:15 · update #1
Its been 6wks
2007-03-24 06:35:55 · update #2
"A good friend stabs a friend in the back"
meaning a friend would tell the person right in front of his/her face instead talking in the back of her...
You did the right thing as a good friend. You do not have to do anything else. You should just be there when she finally finds out the truth and get her back to reality...all you have to do is wait
2007-03-24 07:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by redpoker777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEs you did the right thing. PErfect. Just....give her sometime, at times she might need some fresh air to think it over if she wants to dump him or keep going . It's all up to her choices from now on. As a friend you helped her get to the right path.
-naomi
2007-03-24 13:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Naomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never tell someone close to you that the person they are seeing is cheating you will always get the raw end of the deal let them find out on their own
2007-03-24 13:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would she be mad at u for telling her, I woulod thank u and dump him right away. I think u did the right thing. and keep trying never give up on anything
2007-03-24 13:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done your part. Just stick on what you say. She will comeback to you when she realize that she made a mistake not listening to you.
2007-03-24 13:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't do anything u did was right on telling her the truth. that's wat best friends do 4 each other. but if she believes her boyfriend and not u, that's wrong.. u did was right if she don't wants to believe u her best friend then that's her problem.. let her deal wit it..
2007-03-24 13:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is something that you don't ask for....it given.
and if the the other person or you loose it....then there is no point.
2007-03-24 13:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Radical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋