I have a really high sex drive and my boyfriend is barely around and when he is he falls asleep.?

Question

I love my boyfriend but a girtl has needs. What can i do to waken him up and get him ready for love again?

I am not unattractve and i have a pretty good figure. I dress up, cook for him, wash his clothes and do just about everything but he always wants to be out with his mates.

Answer 1

Get a new boyfriend!

Answer 2

Fold writing tablet in half. Write his sexual needs and preferences as known on one side. On other write yours.
Think about what needs improvement or room to expand. Review adult material in areas of interest. If any show details reader would consider exploiting then share same viewing next time boyfriend is available. You should have a catalog handy for any purchase discussions. Love making should
be frequent and enjoy shared explorations. Go with the lad
you love until he tells reader her concerns no longer warrent
due consideration. That's when you walk your girl needs somewhere he isn't a consideration either.

Answer 3

SOUND LIKE WHAT HE WANTS INSTEAD OF A LOVER IS A HOUSEKEEPER .... I MEAN IS GREAT YOU WANT TO DO ALL THOSE THING FOR A MAN YOU LOVE BUT COME ON .... IF A MAN THAT HAS EVERYTHING ANY MAN DESIRES WHY WOULD HE LIKES TO BE INSTEAD WITH HIS MATES???? SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT...

I MEAN A NORMAL MAN WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A LADY WHO HE CAN TAKE TO HIS MOTHER, A LADY THAT COULD TAKE TO ANY PARTY, A LADY THAT WOULD BE THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN, A LADY THAT TAKES CARE OF HIM, A LADY THAT COULD COOK AND A LADY THAT COULD BE A REAL WOMAN BEHIND CLOSE DOORS AND GO AS WILD AS HE CAN HANDLE....

SO IF U ARE ALL THAT, THEN HE COULD NOT BE SO INTERESTED IN YOU AS YOU THOUGHT HE WOULD. OR HE COULD BE USING YOU AS HIS PERSONAL CARE-TAKER. OR WORSE, HE COULD BE HAVING ANOTHER WOMAN ON THE SIDE.

YOU HAVE TO SIT HIM DOWN AND REALLY HAVE A SERIOUS TALK WITH HIM AND TELL HIM WHAT ARE YOUR GOING THRU AND EXPLAIN TO HIM WHY YOUR FEELING THIS WAY.

Answer 4

is it really him. i had a couple of girl Friends before I got wed.
one was no good in the sack but what a beauty, fantastic body, she was miss. wales one year, we want out together for 2 years before we had sex,moved in together then it all changed within 1 month,from a really good sex life, to like it was her duty or some thing, she never refused sex just it was not a pleasure any more, the night i told her i was going to leave her the sex was great again, for a couple of nights.
then it was back to normal so i left.

Answer 5

Are you sure you love him? Sounds like he is treating you like his Mum. Sorry to say this, but think you could do a lot better!! If you want to stay with him, maybe you should invest in a rabbit.

Answer 6

men should have a higher sex life then girls but he might just have a low one talk to him and ask if you could liven up his sex life in anyway what are his fantasies if he says he hasnt got one not true they all have a fantasy even if it's dressing up or experient with food and cream and lick it off eachother ask him what he wants to do and what is his fanstasy

Answer 7

If he prefers to be with his mates than spend time with you then ditch him. As you say you have needs that are not being met. You also sound sexually incompatible. You want sex he'd rather sleep. he sounds boring.

Answer 8

You already know that you are not compatible, so why ask us, you must finish the relationship as it will never work out. Good luck

Answer 9

i'm going to be blunt, but dump him, get yourself a proper man, one who helps you and respects you. seems like he's just taking advantage of your kindness. it'll get worse the longer your with him as the more lazy he'll become and the less your going to get in terms of bed action.

Answer 10

All I can say is that your boyfriend doesn't deserve you and if your current relationship isn't fulfilling your needs, it is time to look elsewhere ...