We have a 1 year old daughter together, and my sex drive towards him hasn't been around for a while (unless I drink) I don't know what to do....? I don't even want to look at him, now I am completely sickened by him! I feel like I don't even know him. Why would a man be arroused by this? I nees advise!! Please help!
2007-03-24 06:00:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dang, I would really hate to trash this guy, especially since you drove him to porn. I mean he has three choices when a wife cuts off the intimacy. 1) Divorce her, find someone not weirded out! 2) Cheat on her with a brainless blond bimbo, and do your level best to keep it a secrete! 3) Be faithful to your wife but fantasize about sex. You should thank your lucky stars he went for #3! As for the beasty thingy, my guess is his first thought was "WHAT THE HELL?" then it became a running joke! It's like a train crash, you don't want to look but, you just have too. You should seek professional help! Or do him a favor and divorce him so he doesn't have the guilt of destroying a perfectly good relationship (minus the whacked out voided sex drive of his wife).
2007-03-24 08:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you know he's looking at those pictures/vids? While a marriage is about trust and being open about everything unfortunately often times people are not open about EVERYTHING. While you may be disgusted by what you have discovered it is not an unusual kink, just do a google search if you can stomach it. I would guess that even though you are currently in a fairly sexless, it has nothing to do with this. What arouses one person does not arouse another and maybe that is also why you dont really have sex, what you find a huge turn on, he may not be into. Anyway don't be to judgmental unless he's actually doing something with animals.
Talk to him about it, he will be emberassed, and maybe he will get angry but if it really bothers you either he needs to decide to stop looking at that or you may have some hard choices to make.
2007-03-24 09:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by zombiez8me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , you the one that push him a way, so now he looking,,but i glad you was honest about it, most women only tell one side,,, but you told both,, ty,,,he a man,, an if he not happy at home, he be looking some where else,
2007-03-24 09:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋