i av just found out im pregnant i already av a little girl who is nearly 6 months i dunno if its da right time for another one but reali dont wanna av a abortion.im only 18 but av a supportive partner and a loving family i just dont want my little girl to miss out on anything
2007-03-24 05:58:25 · 8 answers · asked by michelle c 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Have the baby, and go on birth control after this one. Don't even think about aborting your little girls sister.... she will be so happy to have a sibling so close in age.
Congrats!
2007-03-24 06:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by katiebug 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you aren't financially ready to raise a second child, you still have the option to put this baby up for adoption. If you do have the finances and the love to go 'round, then keep the baby. You said yourself you don't want an abortion. Just do what YOU want to do and what's right for you. You little girl will be over a year old when this baby is born...the situation IS doable. Good luck!
2007-03-24 13:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by grayhare 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its going to be hard very hard. Every baby is precious and special. Having a baby is a blessing don't abort a tiny innocent life because you made a bad choice. You said it yourself you have a loving family and a supportive partner. That's pretty much all you need to do this. You don't want your daughter to miss out on things don't you think she would be missing out on a lot more like her "sister".
2007-03-24 14:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the exact same thing at your age. I chose to terminate. It's not something I'm proud of.
5yrs later... I had a baby and again got pregnant immediately. That baby was born still at 18 weeks and I really understood how ready a person can be to have a baby so close together.
It won't be too hard. Your daughter will have a life-long best friend... you can reuse clothes and toys and everything.
2007-03-24 13:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep the baby. Youll love it as much as your little girl. You have support. Your little girl will love having a brother or a sister. I have 18 month old twins, and a 5 month old. I was afraid I was going to miss stuff with them. But I didnt, and they love him so much!!
2007-03-24 13:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bl3ss3dw1thL1f3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had my first child at 18 and my second 20 months later and my 1st never misses out if anything she gets the most out ov me. dnt worry and have the baby you will neva forgive yourself if u have a abortion. gud luck
2007-03-24 13:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop222000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you don't want your little girl to miss out on anything so your solution is to kill the baby inside of you? How noble. Tell me, what exactly is your 6 month old going to "miss out" on? You can't love 2 children?
2007-03-24 13:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Talk it over with your family and spouse. It is a difficult decision to make. Remeber we are only given what we can handle. Hope you get the answers you are looking for.
2007-03-24 13:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋