My husband works as a security officer and he spends nights at work with this female. They are along most of the time.He says he can't stand her and that she's a *****. She's accused other men of sexually harrasing her and everyone's scared of her.I told him if she ever accused him i'd believe her, am i wrong for that. every time i try to talk about her he says he doesn't want to argue because she's not worth it.Should i believe him?
2007-03-24 05:53:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's as clear as daylight --- Your husband has said he doesn't want to argue (about this female at work) because she's not worth it. So she's nothing...there's nothing going on! Trust him...believe in him...be positive...and please be more supportive! Stay cool!
2007-03-24 06:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds kinda fishy!!! My ex would say the excatly the same thing about this girl and do you know when it was all over with us,they got together and this is how I know "what comes around goes around" is a true experience,because he did care about her and even plan to marry her and the whole time she was sleeping with his best friend...... I L.M.A.O!!!!!
That man beat me for 9 years and I had his children, but I wasn't good enough to marry..so you see what I'm saying.
Now have you ever thought about spying? Dose he find excusses to leave,like start an arugment,or run off to be with friends all the time,leaving you behind?Other then them working together what makes you believe he is taking time to be with her?Answer these question and I might be able tto help you......
2007-03-24 13:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion only,
relationships are built on trust. Usually people who mistrust are or have either thought about mischievious activities or have engaged in activities they would not like thier partner to know about and that guilt is carried over and put onto the other. Now im not saying you have, has he done something before to make you second guess his integrity and honor for you. Be honest with you, in my opinion, if you dont have trust in a relationship, you dont have anything at all. And in fact, if you continue this mistrusting behavior, it wont be before too long your going to loose the man, especially if your telling him right to his face you dont trust him. AGAIN, if you dont trust him, why are you with him? And if your answer has anything to do with, " oh, i love him", or, "untill death do us part", nonsence, well then your supposed to trust those that you love and quit tearing your self apart and destroying your relationship simply becuase you have insecurity issues.
2007-03-24 13:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by J B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are accusing him of cheating because he is working alone with this girl. That is your only reason. You told him that you would believe her over him if she ever accused him of sexual harrassment. Why is he with you? Unless you got something more, you are just being a jealous freak!
2007-03-24 13:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by ~Miss~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OBVIOUSLY you should believe your husband. What kind of relationship is that if you trust some woman more than your husband! You should seriously consider marriage counseling and work on your trust issues.
2007-03-24 12:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that was my bloke and he said that to me the first thing i would be thinking is, he is probably shagging her and he is worried she will tell me which is why he said about how she has been accused of saying that men are harrasing her, its an excuse, watch him carefully mate, and check his phone thats the best way to find out
2007-03-24 12:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Charlotte S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely u have to believe him.
What I feel is.. what he says is 100% correct!
And you don`t need to think in deep about your husband`s work environment, if u want peace & good relations from your husband.
2007-03-24 13:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by swaagat143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says that he hates her, so he probably does. In my opinion you need to try to figure out why you don't trust him. Seems that there are some underlying issues here that have not been made apparent in your question.
2007-03-24 12:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by taterhater420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing like supporting your husband huh? You'd believe her? Nice. Sounds like there are other problems you have to work out. good luck.
2007-03-24 12:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Merk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could go either way. You should def. be careful, but don't accuse him of doing something you are unsure that he is doing.
2007-03-24 12:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by punkxrocker3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋