I am almost 5 months pregnant and I think my parents are going to find out. I have kept it from them because the babys father is my teacher who told me he would pass me if I had sex with him. How do I tell my parents? Me and my bf are planning to lie and claim the baby is my bf's. Would you advixe this?
2007-03-24 05:46:10 · 26 answers · asked by Ann C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
YOU NEED PRENATAL CARE. TELL YOUR PARENTS RIGHT NOW.
First off- here's the thing- if you claim it's your boyfriend's.. he is likely a child who has NO MONEY. You can get a large portion of your teacher's salary and you can raise that child right. DO NOT COVER UP FOR YOUR TEACHER. YOUR CHILD'S ENTIRE FUTURE IS NOT WORTH ONE GRADE.
2007-03-24 05:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, okay uh. Dont lie and definitely dont lie to that baby when its old enough to understand. BIG MISTAKE. ( Been there) If you are old enough to be a mother and mature enough then you need to be mature enough to tell your parents how and why it happened. Whether you passed that class or not ( which was an aweful thing for you to concent to) that teacher was IN THE WRONG major. He took his authority and his position and gambled it all, his fault not something for you to worry about as far as what wil happen to his. Your bf sounds ike a very decent guy to want to help raise and take care of this child as his own but lying and pretending isnt going to help anybody out. It was a decision you made and one you will have to deal with. And as a mother, its time to take responsibility and do the right thing!
2007-03-24 05:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Heather H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO. . . always tell the truth because a lie will come back and bite you in the butt. Your teacher is FINANCIALLY responsible for this child and although you didn't state your age I can guess you are a minor. The TRUTH has to come out because your b/f will not support you for life. He will disappear shortly after the baby is born (probably). I know, he says he won't, but you AREN'T MARRIED and there is nothing to hold him. Jealousy is a very powerful emotion and can and WILL cause you a lot of problems. . . not to mention your teacher may want you again and again as extortion.
TELL THE TRUTH!!!
2007-03-24 07:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady tell the truth, that teacher took advantage of your innocense and in fact committed a serious crime and who knows who else he has done this to. Let's get this creep out of our schools and into a prison where he belongs. Don't lie about it because there maybe a need for medical information to save that baby later on from something in a health related nature and you will need to know more about this teachers background because it will come out in blood work that your bf is not the baby's biological father.
2007-03-24 06:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a great lie, as long as you plan to keep it up for who knows how long. Oh and by the way, you do know that your parents and your bf will find out whether you lie or not right?!
It is only a matter of time. Do yourself a favor and tell them the truth, the consequinces will be alot less than if you wait and let them find out on their own. Things always have a way of coming out exactly when you think its over...
2007-03-24 05:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by jaylah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell your parents. If you are not ready to tell your parents that it is your teacher's baby you still need to tell your parents about the baby. Save yourself the trouble don't start this out with a lie it will only come out in the end. Good Luck to you.
2007-03-24 05:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Dear, maybe you should start posting questions in the mental health section on why you enjoy lying to others to get attention.
One day you could take this too far. Attention is fine and all, but there are other ways to get it.. This is very sad.
Someone could find out a lot about you and report your teacher to the police. Be careful.
Good luck getting some help. Its time to start being a grown up and not lying about being in unfortunate situations, ok? =)
PS.. before anyone gives me a thumbs down for being mean.. go look at her other questions.
2007-03-25 14:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why should your boyfriend claim a life time of reesponsibility for your passing one stupid high school class.
And by the way, not only is it illegal and wrong in EVERY way.
You need to get to a doctor and get some medical care for your baby and yourself.
You need to tell your parents. If you are afraid to tell them, you should talk to a councelor at your school, try planned parenthood, or try the police.
By the way, any Butt hole loser that has to teach high school, and has to get laid by their students is a REAL loser. There are plenty of loose, bimbos at any bar that will screw any guy. There is NO excuse for having sex with a minor. Get a hooker for goodness sake. . .
Also, the teach is messing with your mind majorly. It is the same in child abduction, and when people are molested for years. Your teacher is ABUSING you, even if you wanted to have sex with him. And if your teacher tries to threaten you when you tell him that you are pregnant, I am sure that your dad will have a nice time kicking his butt.
Get yourself to a doctor right away.
2007-03-24 05:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rocka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to tell your parents. Wether you consented to have sex with your teacher just so you could pass is wrong if your under 18. He should be in jail. I think your parents could tell already since your showing. It won't take them long to figure out. A grade isn't worth laying down with your teacher.
2007-03-24 06:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u should do is tell your parents that you are pregnant and tell them that it is not you foul say that you was force to have sex. then tell them who made you.Try to get the police into it then you and your parents go to your school and talk to your principal and tell her that your teacher told you if you have sex with him that he will pass you. that is what i think you should do but to not lie and tell your parents that it is your boyfriend's baby cause the true will be told when the baby come out
2007-03-24 06:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by hot_chick_sexyma07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋