I have takin 2 test and they both said negative. But I think I took them to early . I’m about 2 weeks late now and my body has been acting really weird... I told my ex boyfriend that I might be pregnant and he freaked out... he told me he has to much goin on in him life right now and has to much goin for him right now and does not want a baby... to TOLD me that I was goin to get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption... I could never do any of that!! I want the baby if I am pregnant and will love it with all my heart and this baby would be surrounded by a very loving family.
Now plz be nice im not a sl*t or anything and my family would be there for me and my baby no matter what...
Im 17
He is 19
2007-03-24 05:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
be tough!! strong women don't need week men. kids need love not fathers, no matter what anyone says
2007-03-24 10:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Chris C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 when I was pregnant too. I went to a great school called the YWCA, they taught you regular school but also of pregnancy and child development, and also had a daycare that your baby can go to when they are two weeks old (that's how long they give for maternity leave from the school). You should check into that, so you don't have to drop out of school. The pregnancy tests are probably coming back negative, because there isn't enough of the pregnancy hormone in your urine. The best thing to do is go to a doctors office so that they can take your blood. You can tell a whole lot faster with a blood test rather a urine test. And about your ex, hey let him go, especially if you will have help from your family. He will be the one beating himself up later on in life when the baby doesn't want to be apart of his life or even doesn't know him. A baby's life shouldn't have to suffer for an immature punk. Everything will be fine- First thing's first, find out!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-03-24 17:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by ahvismommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find out for sure if you are pregnant or not. If you can, go to your doctor. If you are, take good care of yourself, Eat healthy, get plenty of rest and follow your doctors advise. If you're not, you might want to start using birth control so you don't become pregnant until you're ready. If you can, tell your family as soon as possible. Hopefully they will be supportive, but also be prepared for all kinds of emotions to surface. You may need to get rid of a boyfriend who is not going to stand by you and help and take responsibility for you and the baby. Adoption may be a good answer. As the adoptive father of two wonderful children (son 18 and daughter 10) I thank God for the choice their birth mothers made in helping my wife and I become the loving parents we are. We had open adoptions with both mothers and had custody of the babies right from birth. Talk to a lawyer about this option. It's not an easy decision, and I'm not trying to persuade you to decide one way or the other. You know best what your particular circumstances are and if the support and love you will need is there or not. Lots of young girls are succesful in raising children and completing school, getting good jobs and supporting the child without the help of the baby's father. Sometimes it's easy, sometimes it not. Look for support groups for girls in your situation. Check local churches, womens shelters, social workers, etc. I know that you will make the best choice for you and for the baby. Don't let people bully you into doing something you don't feel right about. This is your life, your choice. I don't know if your religious or not, but prayer is a great way of helping to make an important choice like this. i will pray for you and wish the best for you. If you like, I'd like to know what you've decided.
Good luck.!!
2007-03-24 15:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by lucky dad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it just relax, wait a couple days before you go crazy. You dont even know if you are, so please dont assume and if you are than its yours and you make the decision whether to keep the baby or not. Im not going to tell you whats better to do because its yours but whatever age you are im sure you will love the baby.
2007-03-24 19:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by dancer92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your period could be late because of stress but if you are going to take another test they usually say to do them 5 days after your last missed period so you could probably take one now. As for the boyfriend I would dump him because obviously if he loved you and possible baby then he would take care of you. Good Luck and dont be stressed!
2007-03-24 14:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by wowaddict 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try another docter not all are accurate. Also you might be expercing something else like a period. Another thing is keep trying to see if you have a baby. If you do get a baby do not give him/her up. Plus Fuc,k your ex.
2007-03-24 20:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 a doctor.
2007-03-24 17:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by funky_girl_pink_monkey_hoops_15_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋