I have a lil delemia. Me and this other girl were best friends for like years and about 5 months ago we stoped being friends and I didn't want anything to do with her. (she was always desperate to keep us together) and now I just called her back after all this time sating I'm sorry and I think I just needed a break and I was wrong but now she keeps saying "no she doesn't wanna be friends and I dont wanna deal with it." But I need her right now than I ever needed her. What do I do to get her back?
2007-03-24 05:32:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's not that i just out of the blue dumped her as a friend. I mean we faught all the time and she was really mean to me but when we stoped being friends i took a look back at other best friends and i saw they did the same thing and i always thought we weren't supposed to be together.
2007-03-24 05:45:48 · update #1
T.S.
you blew it. there was no good reason for dumping her, so why should she take you back as a friend?
2007-03-24 05:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up. Big time.
For you to come back just because you need her is, well, mean.
You can't do anything more to get her back as a friend. This decision is hers. If she doesn't come back don't be surprised. Saying that you didn't want anything to do with her must've hurt her. And it sounds as though she's moved on as she should have.
Find someone else. You both need to move on.
2007-03-24 12:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by All I can be is me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean if she was ur friend then she would still be there for u dont make nobody try to be ur friend a good friend is always there just give it time that true friend will come real soon then u think or maybe that true friend is right there
2007-03-24 12:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get mad if i say this but i think u deserved this.. what makes u think that she's gonna just forgive u and come back when u said no when she asked?
but if u show ur really sorry and really regret saying no before, then maybe she'll come back. after all, you guys have been friends for years.
2007-03-24 12:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Meteor Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on , if she says no, there is nothing that can be done to make her say yes. Chalk it up as experience and wait for someone who will care for you in return.
2007-03-24 12:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new frend, i hve the same situation rite now
2007-03-24 12:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. You were stupid. Chock it up to lesson learned, and come hang out with me!!! :D
2007-03-25 13:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lost in Erehwon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋