I have a friend who keeps track of whatever he spends on me. But yet does not do so for what I spend on him or money I save him. I cut his hair for 5 1/2 years with no payment. Two years ago I took out a loan to pay for some work that needed to be done on my home. When he found out he kept asking for things til I bought them for him. He acted like I had a windfall instead of a loan. Any extra money I get he keeps asking me for money or things til I break down and buy it or give him money. He will list off things he has done for me. Please help if you have any advice!!!!!!
2007-03-24 05:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by Ginger 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is very messed up. You need to speak with him about it. Calmly explain that it bothers you that he does this when you don't do this to him. I understand why he may do it, but if you don't do it to him he should stop. If he won't stop, then start making your own list if you still want to be his friend. Don't do anything else for free for him, since he's so wrapped up in money. Friends aren't supposed to be concerned with trivial issues like that if you are true friends. If it's amounts over $100 then I can understand but less than that is just making too much of a big deal.
2007-03-24 05:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by xtraluvly03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the loser, he is pimping you. He wants you to feel obligated by writing down everything that he does for you. Do not tell him your personal money business, it is obvious that he is not sharing his with you. Hopefully you recognize that he is using you. If you do not believe it put it through the test. Tell him that you are having difficult times and may need his help as you have helped him in the past, if he does not run like a jackrabbit, maybe there is hope, I have my doubts though.
2007-03-24 05:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say get rid of the dude.when he says about all the stuff hes done for you u turn round n say ive done this this this 4 u n ive paid 4 these this n this tell him 2 get a grip n find a bew friend this person is literally usin u 4 ur money
2007-03-29 22:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a list for his butt. And stop letting him run over you. Just because he is your friend does not mean he can treat you any kind of way. Stop giving him money and stop asking for money.Handle your own.
2007-03-30 11:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not your friend, he is a moocher. Stop doing anything for the ungrateful *** and find some new friends.
2007-03-31 20:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by famurattla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a friend, that's a moocher. Does he think that you're his mother? Lose the loser.
2007-03-31 19:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by purpledeucegirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't do that to friends. Get rid of him....he is a user
2007-04-01 03:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by little Glo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋