like say if the person does cry about what they've done and does feel bad for it? but then after they feel sad about it they start feeling better and happier and they don't feel guilt at that moment and they start thinking about other things like thier minds drift off?.........they still didn't like what they did but they don't feel that horrible guilt feeling at that moment...................
they also feel bed tht they don'[t always feel guilty and try to force themselves sometimes to feel the guilt again?............................................................i kniow it might be ok if you did somethhing bad thta was little but what if it was BIG?
so back to my question does the person still care?.............................they said if they could change one thing in thier life they would change tht even though there are othr things that makes their life suck like an asshole parent
2007-03-24 05:10:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Wow, that's me in a nutshell. I have depression and ADD, and not doing my homework and school work and putting off things with my friends makes me so unbelievably guilty. I cry a lot and distance myself from other people, but then sometimes it gets to the point where I'm like "Oh well, I'm not going to do my work anyway because I'm so miserable... might as well surf the web, or play a game, or say I did my homework though I didn't." And then I'm doing something fun, and forget the guilt.
And then once I'm reminded of what I've done, I get miserable again.
Sometimes I force myself to feel guilty if I believe I should... I think of things I regret to make myself stop enjoying something, like watching TV when I'm not supposed to. Yeah, I sit around and feel miserable, but at least I'm taking advantage of that time for fun when I should be doing work.
Eh, I'm kind of going in circles now. But yeah, it's a vicious cycle, and even though I may be not guilty some times, being not guilty usually makes me feel guilty in the end.
2007-03-24 05:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by Koko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends of what the person DO not what is in the mind.
2007-03-24 15:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by janne5011 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋