my friend is goofy anoying and nobody likes her or want to be friends with her and i don't blame them how can i tell her to back off
2007-03-24 04:49:32 · 12 answers · asked by sherikafrederick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let her know you are feeling annoyed by her. And tell her politely to give you some space! Hope it works out fine!
2007-03-24 04:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Celesteee. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all learn our social skills from our friends and abandoning someone completely can be a horrible blow to one's self-esteem. We are all so very fragile creatures.
I would suggest keeping the kid gloves on, and trying to shape her into being a better friend. We are like clay, we need molding and bending in the right direction.
If she does something annoying say something like "Well, nobody does stuff like that anymore, why don't we do ____ instead" If she's calling too often, tell her you have homework to do, or that you're running low on cell minutes. If she's obsessing about a boy or something, tell her something like "You know, you shouldnt put all your eggs in one basket, what about _______ he's cute"
Whatever it is, people are fragile and if you are the only friend she has you could mean the world to her. That's a very powerful position and it's very easy to mold them. Please be careful.
2007-03-24 06:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ami Sue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels like the only way people will like her is if she is upbeat, always happy and entertaining. how would you feel in her shoes? maybe she doesnt get alot of positive attention at home. I think you would do her a big favor and start showing that she is important by telling her really really nice, what you think.. explain that this is not easy to discuss, but as a friend this is what you see.. then help her out making new friends....it might make her life and attitude alot better!!
2007-03-24 04:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem- dont let her get in your way of popularity, Itll just make is worse. Just make a new friend that you like and start getting close and dont tell your friend you dislike her show her trust me if no one wants to be her friend dont let her have to depend on you- if you go away then shell learn what it takes to be a good friend!!
2007-03-24 04:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by donladey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your friend what exactly annoys you. I would also tell her that other people feel this way. Maybe she should have the opportunity to find new friends who do not thing she is annoying.
2007-03-24 04:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no nice way. Just tell her as one friend talking to another and hope she takes the hint.
2007-03-24 04:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem unfortunatly..
Tell her that she should stop doing these goofy things because it embarrasses you
2007-03-24 04:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that you need your own space for a little while and if shes folowwing you tell here to stop making you uncomfortable
2007-03-24 04:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by lileyx27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,you've just said she is your friend so talk to her as one. Tell her the truth as it it,spill the beans!
2007-03-24 04:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by good day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u have some other work to do or u r busy so got to go.or just tell her that u r not interested (tell that politely)...
2007-03-24 05:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by pinky_noor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋