I have this friend i have known for a long time we always hang out and have a lot of fun, well this friend somehow stole my heart and i fell for her, everyday i liked her more and more. so i decided 2 ask her out but she said no, but we still stayed good friends. but now shes goin out with this guy and i always see them together and my heart just shatters! this girl meant everything 2 me, but she didnt see me in that "way" i saw her. now everyday i think about her and i just cant STOP, im depressed all the time and nothing matters anymore. most of my friends tell me that i should forget about her but I CANT!!!! she goes through my head every 5 minutes. hope was the only thing i had but i dnt think hoping 4 her to say yes in the future means nothing 2 me anymore. I wish i was that guy shes goin out with but "wishing and dreaming" 4 her will get me no where! theres no more hope, i dont know wat 2 do. I cant 4get about her. and im up 2 the point WHERE I JUST WANNA DIE!!!! wat should i do?
2007-03-24 04:44:15 · 11 answers · asked by Rejected 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im in the same posistion. i know how much it hurts to see her wiv another guy
but you just gotta live with it, theres not much u can do if u come inbetween their relationship she might hate you
you gotta keep th feelings to urself
for me i couldnt stand them being together and seeing them just killed me so i went away for few weeks for a break which didnt work out cuz i still could not get her out of my head
my advice to you, just live with it thts all u can do. im sorry man but ive been in ur posistion for 2 years and the pain does not go down
2007-03-24 04:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to some of the things you're saying. Sometimes I feel so fed up with life that I wonder what the point is anymore. But someone told me once that life is never perfect. I know I didn't have to hear it to realize it was true but after I started thinking about it more and more it began to sink in. We can hope and pray for a perfect life but there will always be hardships. But the thing is that we have to remember that there will also be good times. And I really truly believe that a person's outlook on life can dramatically change how they feel about it. If I'm always reminding myself about all the stresses of work and school and family issues then of course I'm going to be miserable. Just hang in there and remember that when something bad happens something good may come of it. It sounds like you have been through a lot so I probably won't be able to relate to exactly how you're feeling but I do know that there is always something out there that can make you feel better about life. What is your passion? Do you have one? Maybe you need to find it and pursue it. Maybe find a new environment to see if you can find something more worthwhile than what you're experiencing now. Surround yourself with positive people and things and I guarantee it'll rub off on you. I wish you the best. Good luck.
2016-03-29 02:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the pain of seeing her with someone else right now is breaking your heart. You have to stay strong tho' because you never know what could happen next. She could decide that this guy is not the guy for her and you are. Or you could end up being her friend and finding a girl that is crazy about you. I am not going to minimize your pain by saying get over it. I hate that you said you feel like dying tho. That is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I know it is painful, I know and everyone else does too because nobody goes through this life without getting their heart broken, but when you get older you realize there are way more good days than bad. I am sorry you are in pain. Luv ya.
2007-03-31 18:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything matters! Life is full of fun and exciting things to do and see. Go do something fun that you've always wanted to do or try. Call an old friend. Get out and ride a bike or go rollerblading. There are millions of fun and exciting options. The world is yours, go grab it by the tail.
2007-03-24 04:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm.. 1st of all... i say... YOU SHOULDN'T FORGET HER... love is the best experience you could ever have... even if it was tough deadly love... maybe what you should do is try to get over her... as hard as it may seem... have new friends... boys or girls,,, it doesn't matter... coz your true love was 4 this person who rejected you as a lover but accepted you as a friend,,, i guess nothing can be more harmfull to a guy than this " i see you as a friend " phrase... i am a girl but i could tell that guys are so proud that they can't stand rejection... mmm. i find it so great... ur true love... but if she said no.... then she's not worth it.... u asked wut should i do??? i really dont know how to answer that... but i wanna tell u that i'm truely deeply touched by your love experience.... hope everything works out... have faith...
2007-04-01 03:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think almost every teenager goes thru what ur going thru. Take time to heal, hang out with other friends and move on. And about the wanting to die stuff, could u b any more selfish?
2007-03-24 04:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by rachel s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh... I'm so sorry please cheer up! Crushes can suck or even love can suck. Tell her whats on your mind. You only live Once. Out of all the billion people and time you have left on this earth she wont be the last one you might feel this way about. There are millions of girls out here in the sea just a waiting for you!
2007-04-01 00:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by jakie227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not behaving like a normal adult. She can see that. She knows what to do, and got away from you. What would a normal person be like in your situation? Accept your loss and get on with the rest of your normal activities. Or see a Shrink.
2007-03-24 05:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Camper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really have to talk to her and tell her how you feel!With us girls,if you are slow to show affection for here probably in the first few months of being friends we think you are not interested!!Try to talk to her and tell her
2007-03-31 23:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by Flip 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok ok ok
first off... no one is worth dying for
second... just stay away.. give yourself a chance to heal
friends don't always make good lovers.. cause friends are just that.. friends
but wouldn't you rather have her in your life as a friend... than not at all?
2007-03-24 04:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋