I'm so sick and tired being pushed around by him.He always thinks that he's right even when he's not.He's very unreasonable.Although we're not married, I want him to think of his responsibility.We have to kids.
2007-03-24 04:29:08 · 12 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is still single and is going to continue acting like one. You are giving him everything and he has and no paper telling him he should be a family man. When are you women going to stop having children before marriage? I feel sorry for you because I don't see him changing.
2007-03-24 04:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is trying to be so pushy maybe you should just push back and let him know that life can go on without him. That is not the way to be when you are with someone. he needs a reality check and I think if you stand up for yourself that may help alot.
2007-03-24 12:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wise man gave me a piece of advice. You can be right or you can be happy which would you rather be?
Have you tried talking to him? When you do, say how you feel with out accusing him of things. Say "I don't like how you make me feel when this happens" Let him answer and listen to his answers. See where you can compromise. Relationships in my opinion should be 50/50 but every person is different.
2007-03-24 11:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take control of your life and push him right out of that door. Being a family man is something that he should not have to be taught or told.
2007-03-24 11:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you and your guy talked about things? calmly, without an argument?
When two people get into a disagreement, the objective of each is to get the other person to see things THEIR way.... sometimes it helps to see each other's point of view.
Sometimes we have to agree to disagree. and LISTEN to each other... one person can't run the entire show...
yes, he does NEED to be responsible, considering those kids.
if you want to continue this relationship, perhaps consider marriage counseling, either with a minister or therapist.
2007-03-24 11:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not married, why SHOULD he pretend he si something he's not? He isn't a "family man". He is single and has the right to behave as a single man.
2007-03-24 12:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense ladies, but.
Honestly I'm getting so tired of women posting questions asking how they can change their man.
LADIES!!! YOU CAN'T CHANGE HIM!!!!
He has to WANT to change on his own. There is nothing you can do that is going to change him, he has to want to change on his own.
I was a very selfish person and it almost ended my marriage, my wife and I seperated a couple years ago, she took the kids with her. The fact that she left wasn't why I changed, it was because I wanted a second chance in our marriage and I changed and gave up my selfish ways.
So if you want him to change, he has to want to change on his own.
2007-03-24 11:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has to realize this himself, u can't change someone, they have to see that there is a problem. seems as if u both may be wanting different things from life, and this guy may be just too immature to give it to u. he may not want responsibility.
2007-03-24 12:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you can't change anyone ways. He is going to want to change himself. if you are fed up and tired of it. leave move on . you have to think what is best for your children. you and your childrren deserve better than that.good luck.
2007-03-24 11:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not. he is your kids father and your boyfriend . boot him if your unhappy the courts will make sure he takes care of his responsibility to the kids - which he may be happy to do . nobody is ever stuck they just think they are
2007-03-24 11:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by rooster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋