I dont know how many ppl he told, but quite a few as far as I know. A few months later, when he moved to another city, he mentioned that to his new friends. he was so excited when he mentioned that, even to me. Does he respect me?
2007-03-24 04:21:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it is not respectful and I wish you would have waited to have sex until you were married. You might not be with this bf permanently and you gave him your virginity to brag about to his buddies.
2007-03-24 04:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by VW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is have you told anyone, because if you have then you cant be mad at him for telling his friends. I have learned that there are very few guys that dont discuss what is going on in the bedroom. I think that it is important that you set boundaries if you dont want something like this to happen. For example, did you tell him not to tell anyone. To some people this is not common knowledge. Some people feel that if you dont want to talk about sex, then you should not be having it. I understand that it is kind of weird everyone knowing your personal information, but I really would not believe that you did not tell anyone. Because this is something that you and he did together, it is both of your personal information; so in situations like these, when you feel like something needs to stay personal.....you need to let him know that you feel this way. Also, find out if he was excited to have sex with you because you were a virgin or because he loves you. I would say something like, was it better because I was a virgin? If he says yes, then ask why to see if he is just into virgins....because he may have used you.
2007-03-24 04:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by msnothinbutalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell me, does he treat u like a stuffed animal head above his wall, or does he complement you. Only you know, but i tell you this, no matter how much he loves you, there is a part of a man that come out when he is with the boys. You can't change that, with any man.
If he is excited when he told you, to him, he is proud, cause he earn a place in you mind that most people will never forget.
2007-03-24 04:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by A.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he does not respect you or your feelings. There is no reason for him to be going around telling people about your love life. That is something that you keep with each other. I would think about finding someone who truly loves you and respects you.
2007-03-24 05:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may respect u but its guys like that that are not meture enough to be in a serious relationship like tht some guys just "do it" so that ppl will think tht there all tht when there not. or to get attention. if this really concerns u then u need to sit down and talk to him or concider a new bf
2007-03-24 04:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by **♥ hOrSeRiDeR4LiFe♥** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the question: 'So how come he still has his?'
Trust me on this one dear, most men recognise a male virgin as soon as they start talking about it.
He might not be a virgin in th body (grace of someone else) but he still is one in the head. If he is boasting about it then he has given it back.....it didnt happen.
2007-03-24 04:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's telling other people about your sex life, he has very little or no respect for you, because what goes on in your bedroom is private and shouldn't be told to anyone else, his friends don't need to know about it.
My boss at work tells the guys about things his wife does to him in bed, and I get disgusted by it, because it's not any of our business.
2007-03-24 04:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no,i guess you gave in to him so cheap. thats why it is meant to be a special event,it should be in a room filled with roses,a bottle of red wine,chocolate,romance and true love. but u dind't get any of that instead look what you got, you beta stop having sex with cheap guys.this time u got disrespected next who knows maybe it will be abuse,their is nothing wrong in waiting for your husband,sex is not teh ultimate and be grateful that u are not pregnant and go do check ups to make sure that u don't have any std, but are u his first? cos guys just wanna sleep with virgins up and down, becareful am waiting there is not wrong in waiting
2007-03-24 04:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by myrrh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend truly respected you, he should not have told anyone. Tell him you don't like what he is saying about you, and to stop. I'd also seriously reconsider if I still want to have him for a boyfriend.
2007-03-24 04:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that a sign of disrespect? I don't know. I kiss and tell and never thought of kissing as a shameful thing and telling? Eh, it's bragging! Sex is fun! Haha. Does he treat you well besides telling? If he treats you well, maybe he doesn't think telling is a big deal. I don't think it is!
2007-03-24 04:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋