im very lonely and isolated as a person, i live in a small flat, and i have borderline personality disorder to, ive been through a hell of a lot in my life. ive never had any friends or a girl friend in all my 29 years of bein alive. im waiting for an assesment for therapy, but i dont no when this is gonna be.
i have very low self esteem, i can be very dependant, clingy, posessive and needy. but iam aware that iam, and i really try hard not to be.
im trying to break the desperate sense of isolation i feel and loneliness by trying to reach out to girls i like the look of on myspace. ive socially isolated myself and dont go out anywhere because of terrible panic and anxiety, plus i have inner rage feelings to and im worried about losing control.
so for me, MYSPACE is the next best thing. but every approach im making, every friendly message im leaving, which has been for over dozens and dozens of girls, none of them are replying back to me, & i feel angry at them because of it
2007-03-24 03:51:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you no like, clenching teeth really
tight like anger? because their making
me feel rejected, unwanted, and like
a social lepoar, what can i do? are
people being told to stay away from
me???
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2016-05-14 12:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the girls aren't looking for someone on myspace. You need to get help and love yourself first before you can love someone else. Your life doesn't have to be lonely you can change that but it's going to take some time. A woman doesn't want someone she is going to have to take care of like a grown child, she wants someone who is capable of taking care of her to a point. You also need to look at your past and find where the feelings of inner rage are coming from and deal with those issues to get past the rage and anger. You need to go to a mental health department and tell them what is going on and they can find someone to help you with all of this before you hurt yourself or someone else. Good luck and I wish you the best.
2007-03-24 04:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by chevywoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be angry with these girls. Maybe they can sense all the bad feelings you have about yourself and its not YOU they are rejecting but the negativity. You need to learn to like yourself first ( I am sure you have a lot to give ) so please take up any therapy offered and stick with it. It may comfort you to know there are an awful lot of people like you out there all fighting their demons in their own way.
I wish you the very best of luck, keep at it, you will pull through.
2007-03-24 10:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by lemonadesparklecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also delete messages from men I don't know - first off, I'm happily married and want to keep it that way and even if I'd be free - I just can't take those guys serious, who write random women.
I'd recommend, that you don't write them out off the blue, but send a friend-request first, have your profile made up nicely, without naked women-graphics and stuff like that, it's a big turn-off for girls! Once you have a few girls as your friends, you can chat with them or leave cute comments on their profiles.
2007-03-24 04:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Chevrolet*Blazer*Girl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take offence to this, as none is intended but you are asking for our advice, the girls can probably tell from the tone of your messages that you have some problems that you need to deal with. If the messages are written in the same style as the question you have asked, it is clear to see that you are not in a good place right now, and the girls probably don't want to get involved in that. I hope you manage to get the help you need, good luck.
2007-03-24 03:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No one like clingy person [sorry! if it hurts your feelings though >.<] and Myspace isn't that good place to meet new people anyway. You really really should go out sometimes. Don't be frightened of the things we never try. Just try it once. If it good, it's good. anyway, just trying to go out somewhere maybe started with library ?! or someplace else ^___^ [sorry! I'm not good at this =[ ]
2007-03-24 04:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by clashoverride016 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep tyring and dont get too down hearted. there is someone out there for every one, nomatter what problems you might have, there is bound to be some one worse than you. Iam sure that the right one will come along. keep ur chin up and keep smiling, even if you dont feel like it. :-)
2007-03-24 04:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by feefee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u yrself has given the answer to ur own problem
ur afraid of losing control and thru that u feel the need to control others, hence nobody approaches u
continue with your therapy and think about what i told u
2007-03-24 04:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you come over as you have just described yourself,I am not
surprised that the girls steer clear of you.
You have to sort yourself out.
Join a club,meet people...not only girls...learn something------
to talk about,not yourself....best of luck.
2007-03-24 04:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by HELEN LOOKING4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋