how to control my sex emotions?

Question

i'm 17 years old girl.everytime i see a kiss scene or when a girl-boy very close on tv.i get butterflies in my stomach.i cant concentrate, on my studies.when wearing my garments i feel there should be spmebody to have sex .in my that little clothes

Answer 1

k well i think you need to go buy a vibrator they have all kinds and it will help you relieve yourself and have fun at the same time. you dont even have to buy it from a sex store i got mine at a store called spencers in the mall. i know some people may be embarrased but if you are as your checking out, just mention about how "your friend" will love this gift for her birthday and giggle.good luck and have fun<3

Answer 2

U R G E N T L Y -------------------L I S T E N
well.............i disagree with all the answers given above except the two by Dr. Singh and that of Mr. Pinto..............as I'm a 18 yr guy .....and an Indian........i believe u wont get a better advise........Listen

hormones play a great role , but this shouldn't override your goals and aspirations.........as u have said this feeling doesn't make u concentrate on Ur studies this means u really love studying.........
(1)adopt that habit girl! in life which u shouldn't have to hide from this world
(2)even i had this serious trouble of adolescence........but the best way i found was to say no to this feelings
(3)as the stupidity of masturbation is said.........then i better tell them.....soon I'll complete my school life but i never had a girlfriend and never adopted this habit.........because i changed my focus from this cramp to my goals and aspirations
(4)trust in god and Ur aspirations..when u will realise Ur dreams I'm sure u'll get hundreds of ppl to love a beautiful girl like u.........and u'll not need to hide and also feel free

SO PLEASE CHANGE UR FOCUS..........i know u'll do it.................as hundreds of us has done

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Answer 3

Self-control is a set of behaviors which:

Accepts the reality that the only thing in life which you can successfully change and control is yourself.

Keeps in check all self-destructive, addictive, obsessive, compulsive, irrational, and unacceptable behaviors.

Gives you a sense of personal mastery, autonomy, and competency over your own life.

Is under your control and power to direct and orchestrate with no need for interference or manipulation from others.

Makes you the master of your own destiny because it keeps in check those barriers and obstacles which are a threat to your overall success in life.

Is a middle ground between perfectionism and laxity in self care.

Results in your life having a balance and focus by helping you to cope with new challenges in life as they come.

Helps you to keep your over-emotional responses in check or moderation.

Helps you to open yourself up from nonfeeling or pulled-in emotions so that you can have a healthy emotional life.

Is the foundation for healthy coping and contributes to your accepting personal responsibility for your life.

Keeps your life in moderation, helping you to avoid extremes in any direction.

Is the focus of the efforts to let go of the uncontrollables and unchangeables in your life so that you can concentrate on yourself.

Eliminates the need for you to be manipulative, helpless, fixing others, intimidating, overdependent or a caretaker of others.

Helps you to be detached from others and to keep your relationships in a healthy balance of give and take.

Reflects your inner desire to grow up into a mature, responsible adult.

Answer 4

Do Yoga to control your emotions and strengthen you mind and practice to avoid what you do not want.

Answer 5

If people didnt know how masturbate the world would be full of rapist. Learn to masturbate. The more you do the less sex becomes an issue on a day to day basis.

Answer 6

Masturbate.....l cant think of anything else.
Being active doesnt really work, people says it does, but it doesnt.
Masturate, ldk....why do you want the whole world knowing that you have uncontrolable sex emotions?

Answer 7

Its your age, that is making you think all this. Control urself for a few days and you should be alright

Answer 8

everything depends on how u think.
character fails then all fails.
try to concentrate on ur studies, keep the goal, continuos hammering of such kind of thoughs is necessary, so
try to join a group which have good thoughts. good frendship, good thoughts will prevent u frm these kind of thoughts.

Answer 9

if you really don't like that feeling, you have to avoid watching those things and concentrate on other things that can help you relax and have peace of mind with.

Answer 10

its normal and natural for a girl of your age.so dont think to much about it.you will gain control as you grow .