my bf says men can carry on and on, while women times out very quickly?

Question

My bf told me that many times, he had many women before me, and he is a lot older than me. I love him, but everytime he tells me that, I feel very uncomfortable. He said he wouldnt find a woman older than 35, even he is 60, he said there were plenty of women out there, men can always find a young chick. I feel so sad... the more I love him, the more I get hurt hearing that...

Answer 1

Your guy needs sensitivity training. Not all older men are that crude.

Answer 2

Let me tell you something....he's 60! He shouldn't be bragging to you about all the women he's had, he should be trying to hang on to whatever he has left that's still working. Can someone say VIAGRA? It doesn't matter that he can get any young girl because the truth is, they will only be after him for his money (if he has any) and won't want him anymore after he shrivels up and to top it off, they in turn will always have the young man on the side working it when he can't.

To tell you the truth, if he's saying this stuff to you, why are you still there listening? Find yourself a younger man, not necessarily younger than you but younger than him and move on honey! You don't need that.

Answer 3

He is being a in inconsiderate jerk, why is he talking about his past women? And as far as the age thing, the only reason i would think of that a woman would want someone so much older is the money he may have,,loll (not me mind you). But some women would. I hate to say this but he may be making up all those women just to make you jealous and think he is all that,, i would find someone who cared about me and considered my feelings. Good luck

Answer 4

You bf is an A$s. He is putting you down to make himself feel better. He is 60 and afraid he is too old to be attractive to the kind of women he was with when he was a younger man. He is afraid of his age, has too much ego and not a lot of confidence in himself. That's why he puts up this macho front, that's why sex is an endurance competition. Sorry, but you need to find a younger guy that will grow old with you, not in front of you.

Answer 5

so get out now while you are young and can find another man that will appreciate you, not make you feel like trash he can throw out tomorrow. why do you think the guy has had many others, they got wise and left him.
I'd guess your dad didn't show love and no matter how hard you tried he still didn't show you the love you wanted,, you won't find it here either.

Answer 6

Sorry hun but your boyfriend is a misogynistic ***. You need to ditch his arrogant butt and find yourself someone who will treat you right. By the time he is 60 no woman would want him and his arrogant old-man attitude.
You deserve so much better. Older doesn't necessarily mean wiser.

Answer 7

im sorry he sounds an idiot ----- men are the ones that wear out quickly --- and if he keeps on saying that when he knows it makes you uncomfortable then he is insensitive as well --- while the age gap does not concern me the insensitive gap does --- i would suggest you look for someone else he is only going to keep hurting you

Answer 8

And when you get older? If it's just a fling, cool, but it sounds like you've got an emotional thing going on with this guy. Is he worth the hurt?

Answer 9

Time for you to find a younger guy.
This one is clearly a bit insecure. Why? Because he's putting you down and making himself feel good by making you feel bad. He's a leech.

Answer 10

you've picked a fat-headed man with an esteem problem. I'll bet if you poked a needle in his ballooned head it would emit a high pitched squealing sound of hot air escaping rapidly.

love is sometimes blind, you need to open your eyes, hon....
you sound like a level headed lady, keep looking...