I'm 13 and I have two girls that like me alot, but I only like them as friends? I was kinda hoping to keep both of them as friends, but how do I tell them politly that I don't like them that way. Any suggestions would be helpful.
2007-03-24 02:49:42 · 11 answers · asked by Tom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just say "ladies, i like u both a lot but......i like u like a gold fish, I'd cry if i had to flush u down the toilet." Then the don't get mad because you made a joke of it and they start to laugh.
2007-03-24 02:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by m b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you fancy another girl - make sure she's got a boyfriend or some such. Ask them to keep it in confidence and hopefully, they'll realise you're out of the romantic picture and still stay friends.
2007-03-24 10:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't flirt back or send them false signals. As long as they feel there's hope of something more than friendship with you, they won't stop. Be straight up with them and tell them how you feel. The sooner they realize they have no chance with you, the sooner they can get over you and move on.
2007-03-24 09:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jay M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have been a gorgeous little boy for two girls to be running after you, anyway, just talk to them one by one and tell them that it's really flattering that they like you but for now considering your young age, you should just have fun, be friends and concentrate on your studies, right? that way, they would understand and they would know that you're right.. don't break hearts in the future kid..
2007-03-24 09:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mention to both of them in conversations how much you like them as friends and how you never want things to change, and also bring up a) that you are not interested in ANYONE, and don't want to date at the moment or b)That you are intersted in someone else, point her out to them, but make sure they know that she is a real person, otherwise they make think they are your secret love. good luck.
2007-03-24 09:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your 13 your not going to lose your manhood if you tell them you just want to be their friend. if you don't want a girlfriend right now tell them that and say let's just keep it as friends or if you are not attracted to them then say the same darn thing!
2007-03-24 09:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't do anything until they do something if they do then you gotta tell them no but still be friends if they don't do anything then ur good. But if you do have to tell em no they will move on everyone does...
2007-03-24 09:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you just want to be friends
2007-03-24 09:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them the truth.
2007-03-24 09:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them striaght to aviod more misunderstanding.
2007-03-24 09:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by croWnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋