My husband invited his 22yr old (????) over to our house @11pm on night so they could hook up in our motorhome parked in our backyard while myself and our 13 & 15 yr old children where upstairs. Who's more pathic him or her???
2007-03-24 01:34:34 · 23 answers · asked by ajgjang@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What, are you 22 also. What 40 year old uses the term "hooking up"
2007-03-24 01:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Given that I'm 22, I'd have to go with her. Why? Well, you see I used to be into the bar scene and there are plenty of middle aged creeps that are so desperate for young women, but a young woman going for an old man and one who has kids that are really only a few years younger??? Can we say daddy issues? Eh, they are both pathetic, but the man, he's just horny, patheticly so because he's old enough to be her father and he's married, but sex is a natural drive and unfortunately younger woman are considered more attractive. I say unfortunately, because given that I'm in a commited relationship and knowing that age will creep up on me one of these days, it's just unfortunate.
2007-03-24 01:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How or when did you find this out? The next morning? That night? If you woke up and found it happening, he would have found the rest of his clothes out in the yard for him to be picking up to put in the RV with his 22 y/o neighbor.
If the next morning, at 9:00 AM when the lawyers office opened up I would have been on the phone setting up an appointment to see about having his RV moved out of MY driveway with HIM in it.
As for the one saying he needed more oral....why didn't he just say that to his wife then rather than seek it out? If he felt the need to run around, divorce first then go find his 22 y/o's to enjoy. Let him have his mid-life crisis on his own.
2007-03-24 01:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say its your husband who is worse, he is the one that is married, plus right in his backyard, plus with a girl that could be his own daughter. The girl lacks common sense totally and God knows what would make her find a man the same age as her dad desirable but your husband lacks respect for you, for his children and for the girl as well. I would pack his stuff up and kick his butt to the nearest curb. No forgiving a man like that. I would rather live on assitance then live with scum..hopefully you can live without him.
2007-03-24 01:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are both pathetic. I don't think one is worse than the other. Your husband has guts. I'd throw him out on his butt so fast he wouldn't know what hit him. He has no respect for you or your kids. Let alone himself. And as for the 22 year old. She needs her butt kicked too. My opinion is if he was gutsy enough to bring her home, then he is not gonna stop. Send him on his way. And then you can concentrate on raising your kids and building a better life. Good Luck.
2007-03-24 01:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by btyboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez...are you still with him?!! That's really STUPID for THEM to do. (At his age, he is probably going through the "Do I still have it stage",) but if he's a REAL man, he wouldn't act it out with someone other than his wife! She is just a young twit who thinks it's great she can do an older man....Good luck! If I were you, and still love him, I'd sit him down and have a discussion about things,explaining that he was wrong and you won't allow that any more, or else!. If you don't really love him any more...then kick him out and make him pay!
2007-03-24 01:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by ConcernedMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would I do???
Lock the door on my way back in. Open the window and throw all his stuff outside. Call a Lawyer and take him to the cleaners.
She is too young to know any better... He needs his @ss kicked. Good Luck to you Girl!!
2007-03-24 02:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by RaLoh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is the more pathetic one if you ask me but they are both wrong and this never should have happened in the first place. I would be very upset with my husband and i would get out now and fie for divorce if i were you. They both need help if you ask me.
2007-03-24 01:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both are pathetic. He stepped out on you, and she knew it. If she did not know that would be amazing and she is stupid. Your husband needs to either zip it and be his family and no one else, or, you need to get rid of him. That is so disrespectful, I would have to put him out, or leave, the only thing he was worried about was getting laid, not you, your kids or your marriage.
2007-03-24 01:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is, she was obviously getting out of it what she wanted or wouldnt have agreed to come over, but he did this with blatant disregard for you and your childrens feelings, do you really need to ask what you should do with him, have the respect for yourself that he obviously doesnt, you deserve better
2007-03-24 01:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋