I really like this guy who in turn likes me to but he went out with my best friend & 2 weeks ago but he said he likes me more but i feel so bad what if he bumpt her because of me What do i do I AM SO FREEKING OUT.
2007-03-24 01:32:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like he is testing the waters to see what is out there. If your best friend is okay with it go out with him but if not then stick with your friend.
2007-03-24 01:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to avoid the playboy. He's out there, fishing, and you are somewhat caught.
If he went out with your best friend, knowing she was your best friend, what are you to think of that? Surely it would create some sort of animosity between you and your best friend. Unless you are going to play dead and act as though you're his only girl, you've got to make a choice. He can't have both of you and expect a lasting relationship (but does he expect that?).
How can you tell the guy "likes" you? If you know "guys", you know that most of them just want to get into your pants--that's what normally figures largest, in their minds.
He probably likes his car, too, but would trade it in a minute, if he saw what he thought was a good deal.
2007-03-24 01:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by mrearly2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you are a good friend you will call her and tell her you are sorry but you like him to and you two are going out and if she no longer wants to be your friend that you understand...that is the adult thing to do..or you can be a child and do it behind her back and let her find out...also he is USING you...and her...why ruin a friendship over a guy???? Would a nice guy ask out two girls KNOWING they are friends????????? He is evil.
2007-03-24 01:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the guys is a loser. i know its hard, because i was in the same situation, but you really have to realize that he has no boyfriend potential. What if you guys go out for a week, but then dumps you because he realizes he likes your best friend more?
2007-03-24 02:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by its a secret... shhh...! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your best friend that you are going out with him. Maybe she doesn't like him or care, and it will be okay. However, if she likes him and you know this, she is going to be upset with you. Don't let this ruin your friendship - if she finds out later, then she will think you were sneaky regardless of your intentions.
2007-03-24 01:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go out with him you will loose your friend. Don't pick a boy over a friend. Boys will come and go but true friends will be there for you till the end.
2007-03-24 01:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by ->Yera<- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find another guy, if you and your best friend try to date him you will end up enemies and the guy will probably take off also, its not worth it. Best friends are hard to find
2007-03-24 01:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by bcbcbc52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want a guy like that. He is just going to dumo you when the next girl comes along.
2007-03-24 01:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by fazekasamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing you simple as that yes it hurts but don't be a pawn if he liked you as in a dating way then he wouldn't have done this , she was either filler till you put out
2007-03-24 02:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by freeby1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend If she cares if you two go out or not. If she's gonna be pissed that don't go. If she doesn't care than have fun. Who cares if he dumped her for you as long as she doesn't care.
2007-03-24 01:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋