you get over it need advice on overcoming things thanks cos i am down abuot my problems
2007-03-24 00:55:04 · 13 answers · asked by denny 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The worst thing that happened to me was last dec my partner left me and the children without a word.
I lost my home and had to move so the kids left there school and everything we owned, thay lost their friends and of course the one person they loved with all there hearts and he took the dog and still hasn't given her back to us.
I found out after he left us i was pregnant and lost the baby when i was 12 weeks because i was finding it so hard to cope, i wasnt eating and sleeping and trying to deal with my own feelings as well as my childrens..
how did i get over it..well i dont think i wil ever get over that.. i will never trust a nother man..
I got so low i wanted to end my life to stop me feeling the way i did.
So i took mtself to the doctor and he gave me some pills which have helped a little bit.
i dont break down crying now but stil feel so sad.
So go and see your doctor it does help.. Good luck and hope you feel better soon
2007-03-24 01:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by dreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing that ever happened to me was having my mother die when I was a baby. The next worse thing was having my husband divorce me because he got involved with boys and finding out he had molested our two little boys. The other worse thing was raising my boys and having them then stay in contact with their father and sever all contact with me and their sister.
How did I get over it? I deal with the emptiness of not having a mother every day. I feel a sense of sadness over the other things but I have such a wonderful daughter, son-in-law, grandchildren, and friends that I choose to be thankful to God for all the blessings I have, not the things I have lost during my 66 years.
2007-03-24 08:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losing anyone close to you- never truly get over it-but they say time is a great healer-and it is-you don't get over it,but learn to live with it--always think of the Serenity Prayer-it really does work!!
GOD GIVE ME:
The serenity to accept the things I cannot change
The courage to change the things I can
The wisdom to know the difference
God bless you and good luck my friend!!
2007-03-24 09:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 18 something really bad happened to me and I wanted my mum to be there for me and she was like 'what do you expect me to do, its already happened' when all I wanted was a hug.
I thought from then that you should sort out your problems all on your own and never rely on anyone to help you. I have since got some really brilliant friends who are there for me no matter what. And I am there for them too.
Surround yourself with people that truly care about you and your problems will get easier
Good luck
2007-03-24 08:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive found emotional stuff pretty tough, it feels as if Im sinking deeper and deeper into a black hole. The way I have picked myself up, was to try and focus on the things which are positve, rather than the things which are negative such as having family, a home etc. It was difficult but slowly I managed to return back to my normal self. Good luck I hope everything goes ok, please feel free to pm me if you want to chat.
2007-03-24 08:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by sarah_saz26 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Got really depressed over my job and breaking up with boyfriend about 20 years ago. Had a breakdown and I thought I would never recover. Little did I know that I would come back bigger, better and more able to cope after being able to talk to someone. The old adage 'what doesnt kill you makes you stronger' is so true
2007-03-24 08:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
When I was growing up my parents always sent me to my uncles house and he would rape me evey weekend.I didn't say anything because I thought it was my fault.But I did overcome this because he was sent to prison and he did die in prison.I'm now happily married and have 3 wonderful children and I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I hope I was some help to you.
2007-03-24 08:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My baby died I have got used to living with it but I nearly died too,
I won't ever get over it as It was my ex husbands fault she died {due to violence}
But now 5 years on I made so many positive changes.
The first thing I did was divorced him and moved 200 miles away.
I now believe in myself most of the time,
And I don't listen to any one else's opinions only my own.
2007-03-24 08:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
the worst thing that happened to me is gaining back the 20 lbs i've lost b/c of binging and i'm still currently dealing with it. it meakes me cry everyday
2007-03-24 08:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am going through it now and i dont know how to deal with it myself
2007-03-24 10:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Babe K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋