I hate it so much everytime i have to go i cannot stop myself from crying at the thought of it. I have tried being friendly with the other staff, but they all ignore me. I have not received proper training from the people that were given the task of training me, they walk away when i ask for help. I don't know what to do, i'm trying to get a different job, but until then i don't want to keep going to this one. please help me.
2007-03-24 00:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by jadescorpionbite 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Is this new and unique or have you felt like this in multiple positions? Presumably you work because you need the money to live. Focus on that. Notably, you do not say that people are abusing you. You just do not feel competent.
You need to stop asking for "help" and start asking specific questions. Email them (1) because its efficient and (2) it documents that you are seeking information to help you perform your job. Also, is there a manual you can review at home at night?
I think you are better off learning to deal with the situation than in quitting. Part of being a successful adult is simply being able to cope. Stop worrying about whether people are "friendly." Be pleasant in a distant "I don't need you as a friend" sort of a way and leave it at that. A sincere sounding "good morning" and "have a good evening" to the people with whom you work most closely is all that is required. And I don't care if your co-workers don't do the same. If someone wants to talk be a good listener, but don't talk about your own personal life at work.
Start exercising, if you don't already, and consider getting on an anti-depressant or changing your anti-depressant. When I'm on my anti-depressant, it doesn't matter what happens--everything seems manageable.
And you might start looking not only for a different job, but a different kind of job. Temp agencies are great for exposing you to different types of work.
2007-03-24 01:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Millie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should immediately have a "sit down talk" with your boss and inform him of this situation as it is something that any Good Boss would want to know! Especially about not getting the proper training to do your job!
Is there something about your particular personality that people just want to ignore you? This is not normal and should be looked into.
Like do you have Bad breath or Body Oder? etc.
If you are a "good and worthwhile" employee he will try to straighten things out - and if you are not - he will advise you to seek other employment!
Good Luck!
2007-03-24 01:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Address the people that are responsible for your training with YOUR supervisor sitting in. Arrange to have a meeting for this. If they refuse, go to or call the Human Resources Director and address the problem with them. Whatever you do, try not to "fold" until you have something better if you decide to move on in spite of how this meeting turns out.
2007-03-24 01:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in situations like this. Basically you have 2 choices: 1. Quit now or 2. Talk to someone higher up and explain your situation to them, including the lack of training. Maybe by talking to them, you can improve your situation. But, I can tell you it is easier to find another job, while you have one. Good luck!!
2007-03-24 01:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't choose to be a moist noodle yet jobs get even worse than what you're speaking approximately! you're blessed sufficient to paintings with kinfolk. in basic terms think of what it particularly is going to be like while your boss isn't kinfolk and hates your guts! My undesirable mom in regulation has been dealing with jealousy and hate for over a year at her pastime. I additionally had somebody key my vehicle and burn the interior panel for in basic terms hating me. i'm telling you, it gets worse. while kinfolk get on your nerves, you may tell them to bleep off yet once you paintings for an asshole, you don't get the luxurious. My propose is to be careful what you like for, you in basic terms could get it! additionally keep in mind there is not any such factor as "greater effectual" in basic terms diverse. paintings will constantly be paintings no count the type you tumble it around. Its a 4 letter notice, what am i able to tell you. in basic terms attempt to be pleased approximately the flaws you do have as destructive to not having. good success.
2016-10-19 12:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop taking a bath.....than each day you go to work....your Boss will hate you as much as you hate going there!
2007-03-24 01:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by madmilker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋