I'm a 15 year old girl who has a cute boyfriend & we are very close and we havent even kissed now he wants to have sex with me i'm really tempted what should i do.
2007-03-24 00:43:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your relationship will greatly change once you have had sex, maybe for better, probably for the worst. Be careful.
2007-03-24 00:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by ©2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're too young to make that decision right now and you've always thought that you'd wait until you got married. He just may get turned on even more by that, and you'll be happier that you didn't just go for temptation. You don't want to become pregnant, and I bet he doesn't want to be a father right now either. Go slow and stay slow. If he leaves you, it's because he just wants sex and leave it at that. There's a chance that he'll spread rumors around school that you're a slut if you go along with your temptations. Be smarter than that and control yourself. Don't screw up your life and think of how nice it'll be once you meet your husband and save yourself for him. He'll love you for that too. Just remember most men think, the girl they have sex with isn't the one they'll marry. So, just wait for him. Just kiss this one if you feel like it, but don't tease him. Let him know that's how far you'll go, and then see what he does from there. If he's a good friend, he'll stay with you and be happy that you're there to kiss him. Wish you the best.
2007-03-24 07:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U're not even 18 yet.. wait... Most importantly nurture ur friendship into love.
Plz dont mind, but guys at this age become desperate of having sex and after they are satisfied they dont even turn and see the gals.
But if u believe him, then its ur decision.
But be careful at the same time too.
2007-03-24 07:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by ashlesha19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, you'll have plenty of time. Odds are he is just using you to get off, hand him a sock and some lotion and tell him to get lost. You can't ever have a second "first time" so make it count with a guy your really in love with and have already committed to spending the rest of your life with. It will make it incredibly special. He is demonstrating that he just wants to score a virgin by trying to rush you into it. Just wait for a while, it will definitely be worth it.
2007-03-24 07:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I do not care if you are comfortable enough to have sex at such a young age, don't do it because you will regret it afterwards and all he wants is to use you. And once he uses you he will leave you. So don't do it. Imagine what will happen if something goes horribly horribly wrong. Pregnancy, STD, who knows?
2007-03-24 15:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Miss.Hilton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. I would wait until you are older! I think you'll thank me on this one. Just wait, you can fall in love so many times and you never know what can happen! Wait until you're older, fifteen is just too young!
2007-03-24 08:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by JanetB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab him kiss him and then do watever you feel like and if it involves sex and your comfortable and you dont feel pressured than do it
2007-03-24 07:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it he is putting u under too much pressure if he loves u as much as he claims he will wait till ur ready. besides ur not ready, if u were u wuld not be asking.
2007-03-24 09:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lobster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm most people might say u r to young but really it's up to u its ur decision
2007-03-24 07:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time
2007-03-24 07:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by begum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋