I miss her, but think i was right? Was I, now she just looks at the floor when we see each other?

Question

O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along..we just argued..and she spent the whole time telling me about a guy friend she met up wiv 4 1st time in 3yr...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. Since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i agreed to meet her 4drink,but i backed out,saying it was best 2go our separate ways!now we just ignore each oth

Answer 1

You were right in what you did. Sheis playing games with you and needs to leave you alone and let you heal and move on. She does not want to be in a relationship with you but she does not want to let you move on and live your life. Ignore her and do not have any contact with her she is a loser who is using you.

Answer 2

well, i guess your gf is having a dilemna...after being together in 3 years (if i understand it right), she felt the feelings she had when you two are only starting out, with the guy that she met...it's like going back and feeling the butterflies in your stomach...my bf and i have been together for 7 years ( and still are together while you read this) and sometimes i feel that too...we argue a lot and i felt it's not the same anymore...cause i do not feel thrilled by his presence anymore...but i guess,the butterflies fades through time, but love should remain..a different kind of love, stronger than what you felt the first time you were together...i guess, your gf needs time off...if your love for each other is strong, she will come back and say she was so stupid in leaving you...she just became tired of your relationship i guess, but it doesn't mean she doesn't love you...every relationship passes through that stage..we're just human, we get tired of our own family too don't we?but we never leave them...maybe the guy she met just made her feel the way you made her feel before...i hope you get what i mean...you just have to sometimes rekindle some things you do before...i always tell that to my bf...that he never bring me flowers anymore, or he never look at me lovingly before...maybe you miss out on doing the things that will make her feel special...for now, i guess if she's not with another guy yet, if you love her, do the move and talk to her about what's going on..you might be taking for granted some things that really meant something to her...goodluck

Answer 3

its better too leave her. see now both of u realize that u don't love each other and just have a friendly relationship. But here is a thing that.. if u continue with her then it hurts u more because you love her and she just treat you as a friend. So if you can see her with any other guy then goo for her otherwise leave her. Walk a head in life ...there is lots more things which makes you busy and u forget her later. As so she do !

Answer 4

it sounds like it was the best thing for it man, you dont need old feelings dragged up time and time again, especially when they arent going to go anywhere, its just going to hurt you more and more over time, its the right thing to do (well i think it is anyways) but no-one can really make a decision like this but you, you need to think about yourself, yes her feelings are important too, but in these situations, you gotta look out for number one pal
goodluck =)

Answer 5

I already answered this the last time you asked it.

Answer 6

Your gut feeling is right. she's trouble, you can do MUCH better.