O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along..we just argued..and she spent the whole time telling me about a guy friend she met up wiv 4 1st time in 3yr...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. Since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i agreed to meet her 4drink,but i backed out,saying it was best 2go our separate ways!now we just ignore each othr
2007-03-24 00:02:34 · 7 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
move on, and cut off all communication with her its the only way you are going to be able to get on with your life and deal with your feelings associated with the breakup, the more you keep seeing her the more you are going to keep your unresolved feelings in and continue to miss her, you can find someone else more worth you time.....
2007-03-27 15:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, as many times as I've had my heart broken by one way or another by a woman, let me tell you this. If you are emotionally attached to a woman in a way to where if you can't be around her without feeling pain for what the situation was that you went through, then it's best to end all attacments to her all together. I went through a time when I was in love with someone and they betrayed me worse than anyone I know and it tore me apart, mainly cause I found out she was pregnant and she had cheated on me, but then I never found out if I was the father of the twins or not, and her and I lost touch, so now I will never know cause she disapeared from my life and I don't know where she is. I've learned from that either there is only friendship or there is posible relationship there or not, you can't have just friends when there is feelings of more than that, and if the other doesn't accept it, then the friendship will not work cause of hurt feelings. So it's best you just move on and go on with your life without her in it so you don't get hurt anymore. Trust me, it's not worth it.
2007-03-24 07:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by revman_237 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy just move on , there are too many other women who would love you for what you have to offer and not judge your downfalls . She has moved on so why waste your time . Telling her that you loved her made no difference in how it is that she was willing to see you . She still offered you friendship but i dont think that you could be friends with someone who you love more than a friends .
2007-03-24 07:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by bk b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing her or you will never heal. In 6 months, it may be a different story but for now, everytime you see her you are going to think you have a chance to get back together when in reality that will never happen
2007-03-24 07:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Paul W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds like DRAMA! She wants you, but doesnt want you. And you did the right thing to tell her that your done and want to go seperate ways! She cant hold on to you and make you feel like your wanted, when she only wants some of you, and not all of you. She is trying to make you mad and jealous, I would move on and forget her and the drama!
2007-03-24 07:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the title to a bad country song. If you told her she had a beautiful body, would she hold it against you?
2007-03-24 07:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Scruloos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sghe loved you...and love you...did u understand....u know first love is whole life..its not difficult to forget love..its impossible...go and tell her tht u cnt live without her....i am sure she will come back....u know argues and alltht it has very short life
good luck...tk cr
2007-03-24 07:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by sahil 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋