okay well i am supposed to go to a party tonight with my boyfriend but i just got my period last night and to be honest i feel like crap! i diddn't sleep and i have really bad cramps. Should i tell him? or do guys get freaked out by our girly problems?
2007-03-23 23:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by kelly w 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
no lol...if he's mature he will understand all women go through it, its natural so just tell him n hopefully he'll understand..my bf does
2007-03-24 00:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is your boyfriend honey. Also depends on your age. Guy that are in high school if very ify. I mean this may make you fell a like akeward. Just tell him that you are not feeling well. If he asks any other question about it then just say it is girly problems. Men then don't normally ask question. If you think that your man is mature enough then you can down out right say it but until you know then call it girly problems or female problems. Mena ask no questions after that. The older they are the more they understand. Good luck honey! If you go to the party have fun! Be safe.
2007-03-24 07:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's upto you whether you tell him - you don't have to. I don't think he would get freaked out, because he wouldn't understand anyway. But then again, I don't know your boyfriend. Not all boys are the same. Some may get freaked out, some might not.
Take a warm, soapy bath, eat some bananas and have a hot water bottle on your stomach, or CURA-HEAT pads which help reduce pain and you could be ready to go!
To be honest with you, once you are at the party you'll forget all about your period and the pain will drift away - stay active
2007-03-24 08:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take some pamprin, and go to the party. Being active WILL make you forget about your cramps. Its happened to me before :)
As for telling him, go ahead and let him know, esp if you know he does not freak out about it. I have no problem telling my fiance, I consider it more of a warning if he wants to get frisky to not try anything down there. :)
2007-03-24 11:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im with a great guy who is very understanding and goes out of his way to make me feel bater when I have woman problems. If this guy is worth your bother and time he will be concerned and understanding...if not...ditch him!
2007-03-24 07:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if he is understanding or not....
if he is decent tell him and he should be sympathetic hell its only a party...........
if he isnt just say ya feeling really crap - why not get a dvd and snuggle up on the sofa!
hope it helps!
2007-03-24 07:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by JesterUK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, guys dont really care about feminine problems, they'll just think oh ok..
2007-03-24 07:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by cherry_girl4u_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is okay. Everyone knows that you women have these "problems."
2007-03-24 07:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. If he can't handle it you may want to rethink your choice in mates.
2007-03-24 09:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by Zeppfan35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him...if he still demand you to go then he is a jerk...he should learn to understand his gf
2007-03-24 07:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋