O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along..we just argued..and she spent the whole time telling me about a guy friend she met up wiv 4 1st time in 3yr...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. Since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i agreed to meet her 4drink,but i backed out,saying it was best 2go our separate ways!now we just ignore each othr
2007-03-23 23:57:06 · 6 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's only been two weeks and you have had contact throughout that time. It is hard to get on with your life if you are still hanging out and contacting someone you are trying to get over. I think lots of people think that they can be friends after a relationship but first you have to get on with your life and perhaps down the road friendship will be possible. Maybe if you remember some of the reasons that you argued and why she broke up with you that may lead to a better choice.Best of luck with your decision.
2007-03-24 00:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by purpleorca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is just hard. That doesn't mean it doesn't need doing. There is no such thing as a "feeble excuse" for breaking up. The reasons people break up are pretty simple. Either they don't have the same feelings they used to. Or they never had the feelings at all. Or the feelings can't overcome the inability to live together healthfully day to day. People may explain it in many ways but its just that simple.
Move along. Life is waiting.
2007-03-24 07:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Millie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's remain friends is a jibbery that girls and boys have usedso often to sound caring when they break up with others. Frankly speaking I don't buy that one. I would advice you to call down a bit especially if you still have some feelings for this girl, give it time and then perhaps when you are over her you can give the friendship thing a try, but before then, don't try, you will only hurt yourself and the girl in question
2007-03-24 07:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by YoursTruly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"now we just ignore each othr" You have gotten to where it has to be for your sanity. Once we love it never goes away. We hold it at bay by not seeing the person or because of the way they treated us. Go fishing...
2007-03-24 07:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad story.....but dude did u jus dump her coz of ur ego or..or did she break up with u???any way congrats ..u've proved boys still hav d power 2 say no!!!3 CHEERS!!!
2007-03-24 07:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by I Am UniQUE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have taken a right decision .This is really good for you both
2007-03-24 07:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Riya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋