2007-03-23 23:50:23 · 8 answers · asked by chanz8teen 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Bury yourself in your work and try to blend into the walls. Don't dress prevocatively and make sure you put pics where she can see you happily with someone else. Even if it is your brother, pretend it's your BF.. know what I mean? Make sure you always refer to your boss as Mr. so and so.. and when she is around, try not to make eye contact with either of them. If you do, act extremely busy.
Sounds like he has given her reason to be jealous in the past.. watch out hon.
2007-03-23 23:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by TrixyLoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly and professional with both husband and wife, but not overly familiar. If appropriate, drop comments about your BF/GF/husband/partner into the conversation ("Sorry I have to run; I'm meeting Bill for dinner") or put a couple of photos in a prominent place on your desk.
A little self-deprecating humor tends to work well with women to level the playing field...a few mild complaints about thunder thighs from too many office bagels, blistered feet, grey hair, or whatever you can gently put down about yourself that doesn't apply to her (like, don't moan about grey hair if you have three greys and she has a headful.) Compliment her on her attire, haircut, or whatever you can sincerely admire. Woman who are threatened by other women are often insecure about their own attributes, so giving her some props may make you appear less threatening.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 05:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know you havent done anything to her then you gud....and what exactly is she jealous of..just you on a whole or something she think happened between you and your boss? just asking...if its the first one, forget her she cant stop you from being you and that's actually a good thing (for you) that she has a reason to be jealous..if its the second one well i cant really help you there..if youre nice to her and compliment her on everything then she'll think your trying to suck up to her..if your rude and disrespectful to her that just makes it worse in every possible way so all i can say is Good Luck
2007-03-31 16:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by BrOokLyN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the spouse really does not want to lose this job, his wife should never come to his workplace, and call as little as possible. Also, if you ever run into her, be very friendly. Compliment her on something, and pretend she's not a b and everything is hunky'dory.
2007-03-31 15:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that could stress me nuts too. i might make a great deal approximately how somebody musta thrown away a needed touch, password, something to jar her slightly. are you able to bypass to The field shop or Staples, and so on. and purchase a lovable little LOCKABLE container that sits on the laptop or interior the drawer? the newborn applying the laptop venture: are you able to establish a focused visitor account (all computers have them) and log of fyour very own account on the top of the day. Or take your mouse with you each and every and daily after artwork. (ok, now im kidding)
2016-11-28 02:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your boss's wife/husband a valid reason to be jealous.
2007-03-23 23:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on, this is now a dead-end
2007-03-31 16:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by DarusEvilTwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your boyfriend show up and take you to lunch ....or fake it
2007-03-30 17:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by BRE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋