how did you find the guts to break up from an unhappy relationship?

Answer 1

made a list, looked at all the pros and cons and if the cons were more than the pros or i felt like the other person dd not want to meet me halfway in the relationship, then i had to remove myself from it. and this is females as well as males. sometimes girlfriends can be toxic too. i dated this guy for a long time and found out that he was on drugs. after several attempts at trying to "help" the cons were more than the pros and i had to walk away for my own safety, family safety, and self esteem. sometimes it is hard but in the long run, if your gut is telling you to do it. it is for a specific reason.

Answer 2

If you are in an unhappy relationship, it shouldn't take much guts to break it off. Just be careful and be tactful and consider the feelings of the other person. We are not responsible for what others do to us, only what we do and say to others.

Answer 3

It takes no guts to break up. It takes guts to make it work.

If its is dating, you are free to simply end it, by saying it over. Marriage. Thats life long. Nothing in your vows said its just as long as you feel happy or like things. They said for life. It is upon the both of you to take it from being unhappy and make it happy and good. If both wont do so, you may just be stuck. Oh, no one wants to hear that, but thats how it is.

Funny, when people think they can simply end things, sort of takes away the incentive to work, change if necessary, do the right things. It is the job of you both to correct yourselves if that is needed, to honor the commitments you made to God and each other as well as yourself.

Most marriages are salvagable, but those in them are more often childish, living in fantasy, immoral, selfish people who arent willing to do what needs done.

Answer 4

This first think you do is to seek counseling for the marriage if need be and seek counselling for yourself as well. Try and do everything to try and restore and fix the marriage if at all possible and if there is no reconciliation or fixing then seperate and if need be file for divorce. Why are you not happy in this relationship if i may ask. If you are not married then just find the right time to break it off even if you need to write a letter or tell them on the phone if you cannot find the courage or strength to do it face to face.

Answer 5

When you know what is acceptable to you, what goes with your beliefs and against your beliefs, then you know it's time to go or stay and work it out. You have to know how to pick your battles. My husband did something that I would never in a million years be able to come to terms with, morally, so I knew it was time to leave. I am a better person for it and will become even better in time. Hopefully he will someday become the man he needs to be, too.

Answer 6

as of yet I'm still in it. partner has just decided to give me a break.i told him i don't love him anymore.and the saying go's if you love something set it free,if it comes back it's your's if it doesn't it never was.

Answer 7

well first of all you have to see were its going. if its not working you can see. to stop. and move on in your life.

Answer 8

just be yourself,remember he or she is just as human as you are,just say i'm sorry but its over,I didn't mean to hurt you but its best for the both of us.

Answer 9

there isn't any. there will be emotional attachments but if it means i'll be happier in years to come, i'll end it.

Answer 10

when we are ready...we just do it